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Old 01-01-2014, 09:00 PM
 
Location: Jacksonville, Fl
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OP, don't listen to the Nay-sayers here. What you are experiencing is normal. Guys here who tell you to grow up, or tell you how insecure you are etc, etc. Women who have slept around and slept with every kinda man will be guarded and tell you, you're a pig for even questioning her.....Not so.

What you are feeling is NORMAL and any man here, who is wired normally, will feel the same way. The difference is in how you handle it, approach the issue and ultimately deal with it. As men we are wired to compete and be territorial. Picturing your woman, past or present with some stud bonking her and probably having great sex with her, tends to F with our brains. Just the thought of it, is enough to make us act out and do stupid things. There are ways you can get over this, the least of which might be finding another girl, but that's you decision.

I just wanted to point out that what you are feeling is not totally outside the parameters of what is normal.

 
Old 01-01-2014, 09:01 PM
 
Location: If I tell you, will you visit?
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Originally Posted by jksmith86 View Post
Come on now I'm getting over it If you loved someone then saw them
Getting down with someone famous in a sexual manner it wouldn't at all
Bother you for a second? I'm
Gettin over it dude I just found out so it's
Fresh get real doctor Phil!
Are you attempting to write in verse?
 
Old 01-01-2014, 09:02 PM
 
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Are you dating Casey Anthony yes or no if yes dump her Before she pulls a Jodi Arias on you .
 
Old 01-01-2014, 09:03 PM
 
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Originally Posted by alaskaboy View Post
OP, don't listen to the Nay-sayers here. What you are experiencing is normal. Guys here who tell you to grow up, or tell you how insecure you are etc, etc. Women who have slept around and slept with every kinda man will be guarded and tell you, you're a pig for even questioning her.....Not so.

What you are feeling is NORMAL and any man here, who is wired normally, will feel the same way. The difference is in how you handle it, approach the issue and ultimately deal with it. As men we are wired to compete and be territorial. Picturing your woman, past or present with some stud bonking her and probably having great sex with her, tends to F with out brains. Just the thought of it, is enough to make us act out and do stupid things. There are ways you can get over this, the least of which might be finding another girl, but that's you decision.

I just wanted to point out that what you are feeling is not totally outside the parameters of what is normal.
Thanks I'm not blowing up over this it's just a shock which most
People almost ALL
People never have to see but I know it will pass.
 
Old 01-01-2014, 09:06 PM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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Originally Posted by alaskaboy View Post
OP, don't listen to the Nay-sayers here. What you are experiencing is normal. Guys here who tell you to grow up, or tell you how insecure you are etc, etc. Women who have slept around and slept with every kinda man will be guarded and tell you, you're a pig for even questioning her.....Not so.

What you are feeling is NORMAL and any man here, who is wired normally, will feel the same way. The difference is in how you handle it, approach the issue and ultimately deal with it. As men we are wired to compete and be territorial. Picturing your woman, past or present with some stud bonking her and probably having great sex with her, tends to F with our brains. Just the thought of it, is enough to make us act out and do stupid things. There are ways you can get over this, the least of which might be finding another girl, but that's you decision.

I just wanted to point out that what you are feeling is not totally outside the parameters of what is normal.
I do agree.
 
Old 01-01-2014, 09:07 PM
 
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Dump her immediately.
Stole my advice.
 
Old 01-01-2014, 09:10 PM
 
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Originally Posted by jksmith86 View Post
Come on now I'm getting over it If you loved someone then saw them
Getting down with someone famous in a sexual manner it wouldn't at all
Bother you for a second? I'm
Gettin over it dude I just found out so it's
Fresh get real doctor Phil!
It is normal to feel jealous and possessive but youre with her already.
 
Old 01-01-2014, 09:16 PM
 
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Are you attempting to write in verse?
I was trying to figure out the meter but failed.

Maybe haiku would be better?

Saw my girl humpin
A famous guy from TV.
Shrinkage did ensue.
 
Old 01-01-2014, 09:24 PM
 
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I am willing to bet most mma fighters taking steroids so just think of what is does down there to a guy.
 
Old 01-01-2014, 09:36 PM
 
Location: Keystone State
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Quote:
Originally Posted by jksmith86 View Post
Come on now I'm getting over it If you loved someone then saw them
Getting down with someone famous in a sexual manner it wouldn't at all
Bother you for a second? I'm
Gettin over it dude I just found out so it's
Fresh get real doctor Phil!
It would definitely bother me and has, trust me I've been there on both sides...My advice to you is based on past experiences. I know what happens if a bf/gf doesn't get over the other's past relationships and it isn't pretty.

Venting on this anonymous forum is probably the best route for you to take to let it out and shake it off.

Best of luck to ya!!!
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