Current girlfriends sexual past bothers me!!? (girl, older, kiss, friend)
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OP, don't listen to the Nay-sayers here. What you are experiencing is normal. Guys here who tell you to grow up, or tell you how insecure you are etc, etc. Women who have slept around and slept with every kinda man will be guarded and tell you, you're a pig for even questioning her.....Not so.
What you are feeling is NORMAL and any man here, who is wired normally, will feel the same way. The difference is in how you handle it, approach the issue and ultimately deal with it. As men we are wired to compete and be territorial. Picturing your woman, past or present with some stud bonking her and probably having great sex with her, tends to F with our brains. Just the thought of it, is enough to make us act out and do stupid things. There are ways you can get over this, the least of which might be finding another girl, but that's you decision.
I just wanted to point out that what you are feeling is not totally outside the parameters of what is normal.
Come on now I'm getting over it If you loved someone then saw them
Getting down with someone famous in a sexual manner it wouldn't at all
Bother you for a second? I'm
Gettin over it dude I just found out so it's
Fresh get real doctor Phil!
OP, don't listen to the Nay-sayers here. What you are experiencing is normal. Guys here who tell you to grow up, or tell you how insecure you are etc, etc. Women who have slept around and slept with every kinda man will be guarded and tell you, you're a pig for even questioning her.....Not so.
What you are feeling is NORMAL and any man here, who is wired normally, will feel the same way. The difference is in how you handle it, approach the issue and ultimately deal with it. As men we are wired to compete and be territorial. Picturing your woman, past or present with some stud bonking her and probably having great sex with her, tends to F with out brains. Just the thought of it, is enough to make us act out and do stupid things. There are ways you can get over this, the least of which might be finding another girl, but that's you decision.
I just wanted to point out that what you are feeling is not totally outside the parameters of what is normal.
Thanks I'm not blowing up over this it's just a shock which most
People almost ALL
People never have to see but I know it will pass.
OP, don't listen to the Nay-sayers here. What you are experiencing is normal. Guys here who tell you to grow up, or tell you how insecure you are etc, etc. Women who have slept around and slept with every kinda man will be guarded and tell you, you're a pig for even questioning her.....Not so.
What you are feeling is NORMAL and any man here, who is wired normally, will feel the same way. The difference is in how you handle it, approach the issue and ultimately deal with it. As men we are wired to compete and be territorial. Picturing your woman, past or present with some stud bonking her and probably having great sex with her, tends to F with our brains. Just the thought of it, is enough to make us act out and do stupid things. There are ways you can get over this, the least of which might be finding another girl, but that's you decision.
I just wanted to point out that what you are feeling is not totally outside the parameters of what is normal.
Come on now I'm getting over it If you loved someone then saw them
Getting down with someone famous in a sexual manner it wouldn't at all
Bother you for a second? I'm
Gettin over it dude I just found out so it's
Fresh get real doctor Phil!
It is normal to feel jealous and possessive but youre with her already.
Come on now I'm getting over it If you loved someone then saw them
Getting down with someone famous in a sexual manner it wouldn't at all
Bother you for a second? I'm
Gettin over it dude I just found out so it's
Fresh get real doctor Phil!
It would definitely bother me and has, trust me I've been there on both sides...My advice to you is based on past experiences. I know what happens if a bf/gf doesn't get over the other's past relationships and it isn't pretty.
Venting on this anonymous forum is probably the best route for you to take to let it out and shake it off.
Best of luck to ya!!!
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