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Old 01-02-2014, 10:12 PM
 
Location: Gotham
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Sure you do.
Actually, I don't. It doesn't matter though.
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Old 01-02-2014, 10:12 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Well, I don't think they hurt me.
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Old 01-02-2014, 10:24 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Actually, I don't. It doesn't matter though.
Fair enough.
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Old 01-02-2014, 10:26 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Well, I don't think they hurt me.
Nah you are beautiful.
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Old 01-02-2014, 10:27 PM
 
Location: If I tell you, will you visit?
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some women like that...goes along with that rugged look...
I'm beginning to think you like that
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Old 01-02-2014, 10:57 PM
 
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When I was in my mid-30s, I packed on 40-50 pounds of extra weight. I became invisible to straight men; my only male friends were gay, who seemed to be able to see me as the person inside instead of just as a frumpy fat woman.

When I was in my mid-40s, the extra weight came off. I noticed right away that I lost my cloak of invisibility where straight men were concerned....
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Old 01-03-2014, 09:51 AM
 
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Its pretty much limited my options to zero

Having a few good looking friends i envy how easy they have it with women where they literally dont have to do much work at all while any women i approach immediate rolls her eyes at me like how dare this unattractive guy enter my airspace which is emotionally draining and why i stopped going after women...
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Old 01-03-2014, 09:57 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Nah you are beautiful.
Well, I probably was before and I hope to be again someday - but right now I'm just fat!
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Old 01-03-2014, 09:57 AM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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any women i approach immediate rolls her eyes at me like how dare this unattractive guy enter my airspace which is emotionally draining and why i stopped going after women...
How do you know that's what they were thinking? Maybe they just didn't want to be bothered by almost anyone. Or maybe a good portion of them were in relationships. Either way, I highly doubt every woman you've ever talked to has thought "how dare this unattractive guy enter my airspace." Not all women are going to think like that.
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Old 01-03-2014, 10:01 AM
 
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How do you know that's what they were thinking? Maybe they just didn't want to be bothered by almost anyone.
Because it happens every time..any women whos single evne if its an acquantance i kind of know will look for a way out of a convo with me after a minute or so its like they want to make sure theyre not giving me any signs i might take as interest

Married women who i know are the only women who will engage in any convo with me because they know theyres no chance i might be hitting on them
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