What does he need to do to earn you back?

[Mimi85]

Originally Posted by grumptacular

That bitterness, (I feel it too), is personal pride. Best thing to do is take your time and deal with your own medicine. Drop this guy. You will appreciate it in the long run

Yeah...sighh....hard for me to admit it, but you are right. I guess I still miss him somewhat . Afterall, he was the first one I had feeling for in awhile. My head says drop him, but my heart is making excuses for him

Originally Posted by JetJockey

He met another woman, ignored you because of it, then she didn't work out so he went back to you.

I'd drop him.

If he went back with his ex, would this make a difference?

Originally Posted by homina12

I'm kinda hoping he's somewhere asking "how do I earn her back?' and someone is telling him he needs to have more self respect than to think or act that way.

Thanks. I see your point.

[Frihed89]

Every woman I backed away from can thank their lucky stars. With only a few exceptions, it's the ones I couldn't back away from that caused both of us the most problems.

[Rhenzanite]

Originally Posted by Mimi85

If he went back with his ex, would this make a difference?



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You're still his consolation prize, so that's up to you.

[stepka]

Originally Posted by Mimi85

If he went back with his ex, would this make a difference?

I should think that would be worse because the ex would still have a hold on him for awhile to come while a new somebody just didn't work out and he'd probably never think about her again.