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Old 01-04-2014, 07:33 PM
 
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She ends up crying because she asks very personal questions, wants me to be honest and then doesn't like what she hears.
You are a fool if you really believe THAT is why she is crying

 
Old 01-04-2014, 07:33 PM
 
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Old 01-04-2014, 07:35 PM
 
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Huck, so true. This man is on an ego trip that will have a crash ending. Hope she takes him to the cleaners.
Guys like our OP end up realizing far too late that they are dying alone with no one there to really care - it's very sad actually.
 
Old 01-04-2014, 07:38 PM
 
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You shouldn't. It can get very complicated when things go wrong. I always discoureged my sons to marry and fortunately none of them have so far.
Well ladies take notes!!! If the guy you're seeing has an old man that can't keep it in his pants As you can see he's giving awesome relationship advice to his seeds. I don't think you'll want to get knocked up by the spawn of dude like this.
 
Old 01-04-2014, 07:39 PM
 
Location: Rome, Italy
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You are a fool if you really believe THAT is why she is crying
She makes questions like "are you ever loved me?"; "how many women have you had since we married?" and I tell her if she really wants me to answer those questions honestly.
 
Old 01-04-2014, 07:42 PM
 
Location: Rome, Italy
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Guys like our OP end up realizing far too late that they are dying alone with no one there to really care - it's very sad actually.
I still have my children and grandchildren. And if everyone followed what you are saying, no one would ever divorce out of fear of dying alone. We all die alone.
 
Old 01-04-2014, 07:46 PM
 
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I still have my children and grandchildren. And if everyone followed what you are saying, no one would ever divorce out of fear of dying alone. We all die alone.
You really think your children and grandchildren have any respect for you at that point? Really?
 
Old 01-04-2014, 07:48 PM
 
Location: Rome, Italy
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Well ladies take notes!!! If the guy you're seeing has an old man that can't keep it in his pants As you can see he's giving awesome relationship advice to his seeds. I don't think you'll want to get knocked up by the spawn of dude like this.
You didn't seem to understand what I said. My sons, with the exception of one, are together with their girlfriends and have been for a few years. Two of them have children. They get along great. Contrary to what happened with generation, there was never any pressure to marry or have children.

I wouldn't be surprised if they stayed together for life or a very long time.

When I say I discouraged marriage, I meant the legal side of it if they want to separate one day.
 
Old 01-04-2014, 07:49 PM
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She makes questions like "are you ever loved me?"; "how many women have you had since we married?" and I tell her if she really wants me to answer those questions honestly.
I guess this would explain the statistics on who are the happiest people.

Happiest is the married man.
Second is the unmarried woman.
Third is the married woman.
Last is the unmarried man.

Wouldn't it be wonderful if she got a really good divorce lawyer and a good private eye and gives you exactly what you deserve and turns herself into the second happiest person and you into the least happy person.
 
Old 01-04-2014, 07:51 PM
 
Location: Rome, Italy
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You really think your children and grandchildren have any respect for you at that point? Really?
They all speak to me, they all visit me, I visit them and I forced myself to always greet them with a hug now (you never know what can I happen). My grandchildren are all over me when I'm around. I would say we all get along very well.

Why would they disrespect me for finally taking action and putting an end to a sham marriage?
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