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You must be right. Why would a man have preference for a woman who hadn't slept around? It's ludicrous. A man wishing to be with a woman who has been discerning with her body and sexuality, a woman who has self respect and takes time to get to know someone before jumping into bed with them.
Just keep in mind that the more discerning she is, the less likely she is to sleep with anyone, including you. You don't get to have it both ways.
So, apparently most men don't want to seriously date or marry a woman with a high number of sexual partners (let's say ~10).
Most men here seem to believe that if a woman has sex with them too soon (1-5 dates?), or outside of an established exclusive relationship, then that means that she is not girlfriend/wife material.
Fair enough.
So does that mean that most men want a woman they like to make him EARN the right to have sex with her? Should sex be a challenge?
If I want to eventually find a LTR, should I make the man I date wait several weeks/months, even if I am sexually/romantically attracted to him too, JUST so that he doesn't think I'm too easy and become turned off? How does this work?
"Easy" women who have trouble in LTRs - it's not because you had sex too soon, usually. Usually, it's because of certain aspects of either your personality or his, or, what you or he are looking for (even subconsciously) in that particular moment.
I've only had sex with 2 men so far (I'm 20). 10 seems like a high number to me, but it's all relative, I guess.
Good for you.
My advice is to get to know him. Learn about him before getting physical.
A lot of guys would like to have a gal who can converse, laugh, do things other than sex.
Sex confuses things. Distorts your view of them.
Start with a hug, next date hug and hold hands, taking it slow. Maybe a kiss later into the courtship. If there is a problem with that pace then he doesn't respect you .
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