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Old 01-07-2014, 09:44 AM
 
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so that would be (f) Even though you want to cheat and think about it sometimes, you refer to morals to keep you at bay (walking away is using your morals I would say)
Haha...me and morals in the same sentence
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Old 01-07-2014, 09:52 AM
 
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Here I'll write my own.. Call it "X"

If I'm in love w a girl and in a relationship, I probably across other girls all the time that I find attractive, some that would gladly reciprocate any attention I put their direction. But the thought of smashing the heart of someone who loves me into the dirt with my boots is enough to make me want to throw up from anxiety before anything happened, and from guilt after. Idk I just couldn't do it.

Im a huge flirt though...
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Old 01-07-2014, 10:07 AM
 
Location: east coast
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Here I'll write my own.. Call it "X"

If I'm in love w a girl and in a relationship, I probably across other girls all the time that I find attractive, some that would gladly reciprocate any attention I put their direction. But the thought of smashing the heart of someone who loves me into the dirt with my boots is enough to make me want to throw up from anxiety before anything happened, and from guilt after. Idk I just couldn't do it.

Im a huge flirt though...
So that is A- out of fear of hurting the relationship or the person, and or altering your life in some way. I feel the say way.
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Old 01-07-2014, 10:09 AM
 
Location: Gaston, South Carolina
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Didn't read the entire litany of answers, but I don't cheat because I am crazy in love with my wife! And it's wrong.
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Old 01-07-2014, 10:10 AM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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I would have to say.... the first part only of G.
I don't agree at all with the second part (after "despite....").
This.
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Old 01-07-2014, 10:13 AM
 
Location: Europe
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I don't cheat my husband because I love him.
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Old 01-07-2014, 10:15 AM
 
Location: east coast
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Didn't read the entire litany of answers, but I don't cheat because I am crazy in love with my wife! And it's wrong.
so that would be (d)- According to your family or moral standards, it is bad to cheat and you abide by all moral values, standards, and principles
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Old 01-07-2014, 10:20 AM
 
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To be honest, it would be

j) I wouldn't cheat because I know how f@cked up it would be if somebody did that to me.

I'll be honest. I probably have the urge to cheat, and I'm not a moral or religious nut or anything, but I try not to be a hypocrite.

Like if a physically unattractive but totally cool woman was in love with me, I'd give her every chance. I try and practice what I preach.

Even if I really detested the woman I was with, and had some really cool hot chick draped over me at the same time (dare to dream), I wouldn't cheat. I'm old and boring now. It won't happen. It's not about being moral. It's about being selfish.
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Old 01-07-2014, 10:21 AM
 
Location: Gaston, South Carolina
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Didn't read the entire litany of answers, but I don't cheat because I am crazy in love with my wife! And it's wrong.
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so that would be (d)- According to your family or moral standards, it is bad to cheat and you abide by all moral values, standards, and principles
Label it how you want to, but the first part of my response is the most important reason to me. I was never taught not to cheat.
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Old 01-07-2014, 10:23 AM
 
Location: east coast
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To be honest, it would be

j) I wouldn't cheat because I know how f@cked up it would be if somebody did that to me.

I'll be honest. I probably have the urge to cheat, and I'm not a moral or religious nut or anything, but I try not to be a hypocrite.

Like if a physically unattractive but totally cool woman was in love with me, I'd give her every chance. I try and practice what I preach.

Even if I really detested the woman I was with, and had some really cool hot chick draped over me at the same time (dare to dream), I wouldn't cheat. I'm old and boring now. It won't happen. It's not about being moral. It's about being selfish.
cool response!

Im just curious because there are so many types of people in this world but I really don't know if we will see any one admit to wanting to cheat but simply it is too expensive or don't have the opportunity.
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