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Just out of curiosity, do you not cheat on your wives/husbands or girl/boyfriends because:
a- It is out of fear that if they find out it may hurt the other person, or damage your relationship, and or alter your life (being lonely)
b- (being really honest) You have the natural desire but haven’t the opportunity because of a busy schedule or it simply hasn’t presented itself- but would want an opportunity
c- (being really honest) You have the natural desire but haven’t the opportunity because of a busy schedule or it simply hasn’t presented itself- glad the opportunity hasn't presented itself yet
d- According to your family or moral standards, it is bad to cheat and you abide by all moral values, standards, and principles
e- you would cheat but there is too much drama and expenses that come with cheating
f- Even though you want to cheat and think about it sometimes, you refer to morals to keep you at bay
g- You truly and really have no desire to be with another person sexually despite the possibilities of
promiscuity and cheating being in our genes according so some “research”
** EDIT**
h- You truly and really have no desire to be with another person sexually despite our natural curiousity or tendency to fantasize about others or celebrities
i- You are just not a sexual person to begin with so your SO sleeps good at night without any worries
Being honest- when I am in a relationship- I am at A & C. The desire is there but it is out of fear of hurting the other person and also because I am busy and don't put myself if those situations. But my mind runs oh so very often...
Last edited by halfamazing; 01-07-2014 at 10:08 AM..
i. I don't cheat because if I feel the urge I end the relationship without hesitation.
If I feel like I am attracted enough to someone (who isn't the person I am dating) that I am thinking of having sex with them, it means the old relationship is over/stale and it's time to move on.
i. I don't cheat because if I feel the urge I end the relationship without hesitation.
If I feel like I am attracted enough to someone (who isn't the person I am dating) that I am thinking of having sex with them, it means the old relationship is over/stale and it's time to move on.
I'm gonna go with 'i' as well. I have absolutely NO desire to cheat. Not even a little bit, because I respect my partner and would end the relationship looooong before I ever even thought about doing that.
i. I don't cheat because if I feel the urge I end the relationship without hesitation.
If I feel like I am attracted enough to someone (who isn't the person I am dating) that I am thinking of having sex with them, it means the old relationship is over/stale and it's time to move on.
so that would be (f) Even though you want to cheat and think about it sometimes, you refer to morals to keep you at bay (walking away is using your morals I would say)
What?
So you think anyone with no desire to cheat is not being truthful?
I am not calling anyone out- relax. Not everyone is willing to be honest on forums...
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