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Old 01-16-2014, 07:34 PM
 
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I don't know. Calling yourself "facially deformed" is pretty drastic!
I'm not so dense to ignore the fact that women like a pretty, normal face.
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Old 01-16-2014, 07:38 PM
 
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Well then now I'm really confused.

You've had work done on your face and you still think you are deformed?

Did the doctor do a bad job?

Was the job just not completed maybe?

What's the deal here?
The doctor did his best job, but it doesn't remove the fact that I wear a false eye and still have scarring left over.
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Old 01-16-2014, 07:39 PM
 
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I'm not so dense to ignore the fact that women like a pretty, normal face.
But you are apparently "dense" enough to think it matters more than anything else.
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Old 01-16-2014, 07:41 PM
 
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The doctor did his best job, but it doesn't remove the fact that I wear a false eye and still have scarring left over.
I don't know man, I think you need to adopt an attitude of "it is what it is" and get on with your life.

Like I said, work to accentuate your other good qualities, or to improve the things you CAN change.
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Old 01-16-2014, 07:50 PM
 
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The doctor did his best job, but it doesn't remove the fact that I wear a false eye and still have scarring left over.
Taking shots out of your false eye would be hilarious!!!

Chicks like to laugh!!!
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Old 01-16-2014, 07:59 PM
 
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I don't know man, I think you need to adopt an attitude of "it is what it is" and get on with your life.

Like I said, work to accentuate your other good qualities, or to improve the things you CAN change.
I just want a way for women to feel comfortable on a first date. You know, talk about how her day was, and what she does in her spare time instead of awkwardly staring and staying quiet.
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Old 01-16-2014, 08:01 PM
 
Location: Pa
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My sister in law's sister has a glass eye. I can't even tell. She had a accident in her youth. But she's still pretty. I'm sure you're still fine. Or you are dating superficial women.
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Old 01-16-2014, 08:01 PM
 
Location: Vail, CO
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My buddy got hit by a 12'' end-cap that had 150 PSI behind it. Shot him 45 feet through the air and now he walks funny and has scarring on his chest, face and hip. He even has issues getting the little soldier up (not sure why he indulges us with this information, but whatever).

He's more machine now than man (He has a lot of metal in him!). He goes out on way more dates than I do. He just got out of a 2 month relationship with a decently attractive woman, She was like 5'8 and 150lbs, 29. reasonably attractive. Dude has a way with words, everyone likes being around him.

So I guess it can happen =)

He just acts like he owns everything and doesn't give a **** about what anyone thinks. I wish I was more take charge like that!
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Old 01-16-2014, 08:08 PM
 
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I just want a way for women to feel comfortable on a first date. You know, talk about how her day was, and what she does in her spare time instead of awkwardly staring and staying quiet.
I think your best bet is to avoid the online dating/blind dates. Meet people in social situations and let them get to know the real you... How you look is secondary to who you are, so don't put yourself in situations where you will be judged at first sight.
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Old 01-16-2014, 08:10 PM
 
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My sister in law's sister has a glass eye. I can't even tell. She had a accident in her youth. But she's still pretty. I'm sure you're still fine. Or you are dating superficial women.
Dates are few and far in between. I can't really filter the type of woman that will go out with me.
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