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I'm nervous. We had unprotected (and some rough) sex a lot this past weekend. I always pulled out in time. I know there was a lot of pre c*m present and she was right on her most fertile time of the month (pre and during ovalution). We did it a lot for 2 days. She is 34 years old. We are in an exclusive Long distance relationship due to her job transfer and first time both of us had sex since July. Is there a good chance she may be pregnant??? I don't know what to do? She tells me not to worry about it, but her clock is ticking and she wants a kid!!! I don't!
Sorry, kiddo, YOU made some fatal errors for yourself which have consequences.
If you knew all of this stuff - her fertility times and all that why on earth did you not use protection? You make absolutely no mature sense for a someone I suppose is around 34 yourself. You knew better and did it anyway. Out of the frying pan and into the fire. I knew it wasn't good for me, but I did it anyway.
If you don't want to wait to use an over the counter method to find out. Some take a few weeks before they are effective and depending on how her insurance is set up, she can call her doctor who will authorize her to go to the outpatient facility at a local hospital and have a quick blood draw and after a couple hours someone will contact her by phone with the results. It's the only method that can tell you right now and is effective right now. Any doctors office or other facility will only use the urine test anyway and they won't know the results this soon either. So, don't second guess anything - just have it done.
Sorry, kiddo, YOU made some fatal errors for yourself which have consequences.
If you knew all of this stuff - her fertility times and all that why on earth did you not use protection? You make absolutely no mature sense for a someone I suppose is around 34 yourself. You knew better and did it anyway. Out of the frying pan and into the fire. I knew it wasn't good for me, but I did it anyway.
If you don't want to wait to use an over the counter method to find out. Some take a few weeks before they are effective and depending on how her insurance is set up, she can call her doctor who will authorize her to go to the outpatient facility at a local hospital and have a quick blood draw and after a couple hours someone will contact her by phone with the results. It's the only method that can tell you right now and is effective right now. So, don't second guess anything - just have it done.
I am 10 years younger than her. She was my cougar/sugar momma. I don't want to pay child support at this age.
If she's not PG, this will be one helluva lesson for you. Humph! Either way, it'll be a good lesson. Not just to you, but to all the other young studly studs out there.
She did not tell me she was ovulating. I have always pulled out and never got any past partners pregnant. I feel tricked.
Oh, dear, pulling-out is by far the WORST method. You didn't educate yourself properly and tricked yourself into believing in a false sense of security with your method. No, you weren't tricked by her - you were tricked by you. Don't even go there. You knew she wasn't on birth control of any kind and you didn't use proper protection. You did not educate yourself on the fact that a man spews his seed often throughout intercourse and often doesn't know it. It's the highest risk out there in terms of 'methods.'
She either is or she isn't pregnant. If she isn't, Be careful next time if you don't want children. If she is, You will have to step up and help her with whatever she decides to do. Forget percentages and statistics. This is what is. Over and out.
I am 10 years younger than her. She was my cougar/sugar momma. I don't want to pay child support at this age.
Doesn't matter, you are of age to have sex, then you are of age to know better and understand the 'methods' you are and aren't using. And not one of them is 100% guaranteed except possibly surgery for one or both of you. I stand by my original post.
Sorry, if this is true, you are obviously not mentally competent. If you go to court you may get a judge to agree and assign you a caretaker.
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