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Old 01-09-2014, 04:57 PM
 
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I'm nervous. We had unprotected (and some rough) sex a lot this past weekend. I always pulled out in time. I know there was a lot of pre c*m present and she was right on her most fertile time of the month (pre and during ovalution). We did it a lot for 2 days. She is 34 years old. We are in an exclusive Long distance relationship due to her job transfer and first time both of us had sex since July. Is there a good chance she may be pregnant??? I don't know what to do? She tells me not to worry about it, but her clock is ticking and she wants a kid!!! I don't!
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Old 01-09-2014, 04:59 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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On the completely off chance this is a true story. What were you doing having sex without a rubber and with a woman who wants a kid when you don't anyway?
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Old 01-09-2014, 05:02 PM
 
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You don't know what to do? Go to CVS and buy a pregnancy test and some condoms.
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Old 01-09-2014, 05:02 PM
 
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On the completely off chance this is a true story. What were you doing having sex without a rubber and with a woman who wants a kid when you don't anyway?

It's totally true. I don't see what is so unbelievable other than the fact I haven't gave into cheating during that long sexless period?
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Old 01-09-2014, 05:03 PM
 
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You don't know what to do? Go to CVS and buy a pregnancy test and some condoms.

She did not tell me she was ovulating. I have always pulled out and never got any past partners pregnant. I feel tricked.
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Old 01-09-2014, 05:04 PM
 
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OK, break up with her. Then you will save money on condoms at least until next time. But you should probably still get the pregnancy test.
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Old 01-09-2014, 05:04 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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She did not tell me she was ovulating. I have always pulled out and never got any past partners pregnant. I feel tricked.
If you don't want to be a daddy, don't have sex without a condom (or a vasectomy.) It's really that simple.
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Old 01-09-2014, 05:04 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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Yeah, smells faux to me, too.

You don't want a kid, she does, you're conscious and conscientious enough to be aware of ovulation and tracking it, and yet you STILL go sans protection and THEN are like "What are the odds???" Um, no, not buying it.
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Old 01-09-2014, 05:05 PM
 
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...buying it even less, now, with the "I feel tricked!"

Go play somewhere else.
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Old 01-09-2014, 05:05 PM
 
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It's not that difficult to tell when a woman is ovulating, by the way. They really don't teach you guys much in school, I'm afraid.
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