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Old 01-13-2014, 08:54 AM
 
Location: Gaston, South Carolina
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If the house is on fire , do you shut up and keep it a secret and let every one burn?
Depends on whether we need some water or are going to let the mofo burn! Seriously, the connection between a house on fire and a father going to a strip club isn't the same thing. First of all, if you tell your mother the house is on fire, you're not going to possibly embarass her by telling her something she already knows of and approves of.

I don't really know what I would do in the OP's situation other than finding a new strip club to go to.
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Old 01-13-2014, 09:04 AM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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If the house is on fire , do you shut up and keep it a secret and let every one burn?
No, but you don't stand in the middle of it dumping gasoline all around, either. You step away from it and let the people who started the fire (who also happen to own the house) deal with it. Nothing the OP does is going to put this one out.
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Old 01-13-2014, 09:41 AM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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If the house is on fire , do you shut up and keep it a secret and let every one burn?
Or you could cause a false alarm/panic by telling the owner their house is on fire when its really not.
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Old 01-13-2014, 09:43 AM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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Depends on whether we need some water or are going to let the mofo burn! Seriously, the connection between a house on fire and a father going to a strip club isn't the same thing. First of all, if you tell your mother the house is on fire, you're not going to possibly embarass her by telling her something she already knows of and approves of.

I don't really know what I would do in the OP's situation other than finding a new strip club to go to.
You wouldn't want to get a lap dance with your dad?
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Old 01-28-2016, 10:09 PM
 
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Omg you shouldnt even be auestioning this. Of course you tell your mom she is your mother. I get hes your dad and you dont want to cause drama but he isbone hurting your mom and he could give her a std. All you men saying bros before hos are immature jerks that dont care for their own mother. You have a responsability to your mother to let her knowvyour father is a cheater. If you dont tell her then you are not a very good son and shame on you
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Old 01-29-2016, 05:38 AM
 
Location: Subconscious Syncope, USA (Northeastern US)
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Omg you shouldnt even be auestioning this. Of course you tell your mom she is your mother. I get hes your dad and you dont want to cause drama but he isbone hurting your mom and he could give her a std. All you men saying bros before hos are immature jerks that dont care for their own mother. You have a responsability to your mother to let her knowvyour father is a cheater. If you dont tell her then you are not a very good son and shame on you

Um, no! Not unless he wants to end up feeling like HE is the reason his Mom and Dad are arguing and/or divorced. Right now ALL responsibility for that ever happening is where it belongs, squarely on the shoulders of Mom and Dad. Honestly, that is a trust issue. It would be like Mom telling her son's fiancée or wife that she caught him out with another woman. She can approach her son about it, but its not up to her to approach the woman.

There is probably a reason Mom doesn't care where her man spends his money and time. Maybe she is in menopause, and is genuinely not interested in sex anymore, as an example. In any case, that couples intimate secrets are no business of their children.

If he needs to upset anyone, he should talk to his Dad.

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Old 01-29-2016, 07:11 AM
 
Location: NNJ
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Omg you shouldnt even be auestioning this.
Omg you shouldn't even be dgging up this old thread.
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Old 01-29-2016, 07:37 AM
 
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If your father is lying to your mother not only do you tell her but you kick his aaa, too. What kind of a child are you to let your father keep hurting your mother?
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Old 01-29-2016, 08:17 AM
 
Location: State of Denial
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Omg you shouldnt even be auestioning this. Of course you tell your mom she is your mother. I get hes your dad and you dont want to cause drama but he isbone hurting your mom and he could give her a std. All you men saying bros before hos are immature jerks that dont care for their own mother. You have a responsability to your mother to let her knowvyour father is a cheater. If you dont tell her then you are not a very good son and shame on you
This thread is 2 years old. Jesus.
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