For the women: 40, fat, single, and getting laid like crazy (loving, older)
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But the short moral of the story here is... I (the guy) was the same person before her friends approved of me as I was after they approved of me. But this woman even in her 30's had to judge me through other women's opinion. Like a 6 year-old child if you ask me.
this has been my experience as well with many, if not most, women. they seem to have very much of a "only if my friends think it's ok" mentality when picking men.
i think guys are also influenced by their buddies but women more so than men. it's understandable if the girl is in her teens or maybe early 20s, but really inexcusably lame past that age.
Its pretty obvious that most men will have sex with anything and most women will not have sex with anything or everything. A fat woman or even an unattractive woman can easily find a man to be with and even maintain a healthy relationship, and also produce off springs. Fat men and unattractive men will have a harder time with Relationship than obese and unattractive women.
Yes, of course, a few. But also lots of guys with no success. Lots of overweight men who have had absoutely no success with women, and lots of overweight women who won't have a thing to do with big men. That's what I have seen. I have also seen women of all sizes do much better with men than men of all sizes succeed with women. You're not going to find women who say they prefer large men. You'll find a few men - a few - who beat the odds and do OK.
I have seen the same. To be honest an unattractive woman or a fat and woman may get as much sex compared to average looking men.
Really? I didn't even see weight in profile section of members.
Just curious what you base this opinion on? Do some of us type "fat". The letters on the screen are darker due to the heavy weight of some sausage fingers?
Let me see.
*USA one of the most obese nations in the world, 90% or more of the posters from there
*People aged 40+ are much more obese in the stats, than those 30 or under
*Polls in the past have shown people around the age of 40 to be a popular age on this forum
Interesting pick for a metaphor for that, if that is the case.
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Like a 6 year-old child if you ask me.
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