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That's the difference. Given the option of choosing to do what someone else prefers, or sifting through a ton of crap to find someone else that does what I prefer, I'll choose the latter.
Edit: Or rather, I WOULD choose the latter. Obviously, that choice isn't afforded to us.
Well, the guy in the article didn't. So we may have an issue of maturity level.
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7. Messages from men outside a 15-mile radius....
You didn't hear? We have trains, planes and automobiles now!
Seriously, 15 miles? I met my second (late) wife online. She lived 2000 miles away. Then I met my current wife online. She lived 1300 miles away. I'm not suggesting you need to use a 2000 mile radius, but goodness gracious woman, an important value of the internet is that it connects us with people outside of our neighborhoods. I can't imagine self-imposing a 15-mile rule.
You didn't hear? We have trains, planes and automobiles now!
Seriously, 15 miles? I met my second (late) wife online. She lived 2000 miles away. Then I met my current wife online. She lived 1300 miles away. I'm not suggesting you need to use a 2000 mile radius, but goodness gracious woman, an important value of the internet is that it connects us with people outside of our neighborhoods. I can't imagine self-imposing a 15-mile rule.
We also have something called cities, where MILLIONS of people all live close by! OMG!
That is HARDLY wanting it all, geez! That is a minimum expectation! It is really sad that you think a male being nice and polite is such a high expectation.
No offense but listening to you wahines, it sounds like it will be a high expectatuion.
It's unfortunate, but expecting a man to be polite IS too high of an expectation in dating today.
Yeah, because most men just want to get laid and have no standards beyond that. Most women don't want to be used for sex.
And that is a problem, its a thinking problem.
1) First no guy can use you for sex, sex is always a mutual thing, unless illegal.
2) When having sex your not giving up anything, your sharing an experience.
3) Men and Wemon, sometimes have different biological needs, For as many disapointing one night stands that you ladies have felt as being used for sex. Same some guys have been friends, wined and dined, treatted you with respect and like a queen to help fulfil whatever emotional need to only be thrown aside for the next guy, So it goes both ways.
1) First no guy can use you for sex, sex is always a mutual thing, unless illegal.
2) When having sex your not giving up anything, your sharing an experience.
Wow. It's SO not that simple! Of course guys can, and do, use women for sex, which is why some women don't agree to ONS. You can't MAKE a guy give you oral, and see after your needs. And you can't make him stick around for a relationship, even if he told you that's what he wanted just to get his ONS. I know you don't need to have this explained to you. Not sure why you're posting like this.
Wow. It's SO not that simple! Of course guys can, and do, use women for sex, which is why some women don't agree to ONS. You can't MAKE a guy give you oral, and see after your needs. And you can't make him stick around for a relationship, even if he told you that's what he wanted just to get his ONS. I know you don't need to have this explained to you. Not sure why you're posting like this.
But dosnt that go the other way around too? I can't make ladies sleep with me either? So let me see if i understand what your saying? Are you saying that if you don't reach the orgasm then your being used for sex? For a guy this isn't manly to say this, but ive had sex before and not reach it(stress, tired etc) and still really enjoyed the experience. Idk Ive dated wemon who said they wantted a longterm relationship or a goodman. For months I would talk on the phone for hrs with them into early mornings, take them out to dinner etc etc, treat them good with (continue next post please)
With respect, to only lose out to a guy who could provide more or is an 8 rather a 7 in looks. What should i say or think? Were they using me or excercising there choices? Everything about how we think about things.
Off topic but on the point im making: Recently my last girlfriend(ex) who i was involved with in a very longterm relationship died unexpectedly about 4mths ago. As a native american indian, my belief is death isnt final. So when she died sure I grieved for her death, I loved her. But today i don't grieve for her death but my own selfish loss (conforts her companionship and friendship gave me) I spent almost a 1/4 of my life on and off with her. But if I had thought death was final i would be crying for her death even today. Aho
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Ah, so you're ok with having sex with women if they deny you an orgasm? Would you have ONS's with women knowing in advance that the likelihood of your getting an orgasm out of it was almost nil?
Ah, so you're ok with having sex with women if they deny you an orgasm? Would you have ONS's with women knowing in advance that the likelihood of your getting an orgasm out of it was almost nil?
Its how you think about sex ruth, Deny you an orgasim? I don't understand that, are you saying there are guys who willfully and are thinking im going to deny you an orgasim? Or are they just selfish and or inexperienced?
Back to, its how you think about sex ruth, For me sure i would have an ONS with a woman even if i knew i wasn't going to have an orgasim. Wanna know why? Because woman are gorgeous creatures, you smell good, your warm, you have nice curves, each one of you are not the same. Its kind of a pleasure to see how your body responds to stimuli and making you reach that peak(but i have always been a giving lover in bed often at my expence). Could i always go without orgasim no! im not made that way. The truth is intercourse feels good even if you dont reach orgasim.
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