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Old 01-17-2014, 12:59 PM
 
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I've never kept a long term relationship in my life. I've always enjoyed having more than one woman at the same time and have done so since I was in college. I especially enjoy married women, they have a certain "housewife sexiness" that makes me go crazy.

However, I started going out with a friend's female friend. She has the looks I always look for in a woman but for the first time I started noticing other attributes other than physical traits. We have been going out for quite a while now (something I would never with other women) and she's really intelligent and sweet. We have kissed a few times already and her text messages always put a smile on my face.

I don't know what's going on between us right now but I have her in my head all the time and it feels like my chest isn't big enough for my heart whenever I see her.

I was going to spend the night with one of the other women I keep but I felt like I couldn't and broke up with her.

By now I should already be having sex with this woman but the other day we just sat together, she was laying her head on my chest and we just enjoyed the cold afternoon together.

What the hell happened to my testosterone? I've never felt this weird in my life. I was reading one of her messages at work the other day and one of my colleagues commented "What's that silly smile on your face?".
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Old 01-17-2014, 01:04 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Old 01-17-2014, 01:07 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I've never kept a long term relationship in my life. I've always enjoyed having more than one woman at the same time and have done so since I was in college. I especially enjoy married women, they have a certain "housewife sexiness" that makes me go crazy.

However, I started going out with a friend's female friend. She has the looks I always look for in a woman but for the first time I started noticing other attributes other than physical traits. We have been going out for quite a while now (something I would never with other women) and she's really intelligent and sweet. We have kissed a few times already and her text messages always put a smile on my face.

I don't know what's going on between us right now but I have her in my head all the time and it feels like my chest isn't big enough for my heart whenever I see her.

I was going to spend the night with one of the other women I keep but I felt like I couldn't and broke up with her.

By now I should already be having sex with this woman but the other day we just sat together, she was laying her head on my chest and we just enjoyed the cold afternoon together.

What the hell happened to my testosterone? I've never felt this weird in my life. I was reading one of her messages at work the other day and one of my colleagues commented "What's that silly smile on your face?".

Tell this to your buddies so they can mock some sense into you

god
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Old 01-17-2014, 01:09 PM
 
Location: Houston area
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This behavior sounds abnormal.
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Old 01-17-2014, 01:09 PM
 
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Really?
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Old 01-17-2014, 01:12 PM
 
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Tell this to your buddies so they can mock some sense into you

god
I'm not sure I get what you mean. I'm just saying this has never happened to me.
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Old 01-17-2014, 01:12 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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I've never kept a long term relationship in my life. I've always enjoyed having more than one woman at the same time and have done so since I was in college. I especially enjoy married women, they have a certain "housewife sexiness" that makes me go crazy.

However, I started going out with a friend's female friend. She has the looks I always look for in a woman but for the first time I started noticing other attributes other than physical traits. We have been going out for quite a while now (something I would never with other women) and she's really intelligent and sweet. We have kissed a few times already and her text messages always put a smile on my face.

I don't know what's going on between us right now but I have her in my head all the time and it feels like my chest isn't big enough for my heart whenever I see her.

I was going to spend the night with one of the other women I keep but I felt like I couldn't and broke up with her.

By now I should already be having sex with this woman but the other day we just sat together, she was laying her head on my chest and we just enjoyed the cold afternoon together.

What the hell happened to my testosterone? I've never felt this weird in my life. I was reading one of her messages at work the other day and one of my colleagues commented "What's that silly smile on your face?".
On the very slim chance this isn't a fake post, what's happening is you are growing the @#$% up. You are finding out what it is like to enter into a relationship of genuine caring, rather than one of short-term conquest. Nice, isn't it? Congratulations.
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Old 01-17-2014, 01:14 PM
 
Location: Gaston, South Carolina
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On the very slim chance this isn't a fake post, what's happening is you are growing the @#$% up. You are finding out what it is like to enter into a relationship of genuine caring, rather than one of short-term conquest. Nice, isn't it? Congratulations.
This, pretty much. Enjoy it while it lasts.
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Old 01-17-2014, 01:17 PM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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You've been smitten. The only way to get over this is to stay home, in bed, for 3 weeks and take a lot of tylenol.

On the other hand....you know what to do.
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Old 01-17-2014, 01:23 PM
 
Location: SacTown
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funny if she's just as promiscuous
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