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Old 06-29-2014, 03:14 PM
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Originally Posted by ProDancergirl View Post
I don't mean to sound boastful but I consider myself attractive. I get told that ALL the time. I'm a professional cheerleader for a NFL team and do lots of public appearances where I am usually hit on by men...but they usually know they have no chance and it's in good fun. Outside of that it's rare I'll ever get hit on. During the week I work at as a realtor and many of the men I show places to will flirt with me but never ask me out.

This one guy I was really interested in asked my coworker about me by email (he showed me the email between them). He pretty much said he thought I was beautiful and wanted to know if I was single. My coworker told him yes but he never sent him another email. Today I gave him a tour of another property and the whole time he didn't ask me out! I am baffled. This happens all the time! A guy will ask someone about me and not say a word to me personally. There was another customer I had that did the same thing...asked a coworker about my single status but never said anything to me! It's funny guys always ask me how I'm single...well maybe if you'd ask me out! So my question is...could the reasoning be that they are scared/intimidated by me? I never really believed this to be true but I don't know why else
Weird thought but...why not ask the guy out? You want him to ask you out but he has no idea if you're interested in him at all. The only thing he knows about you is that you're beautiful and single. You also find him attractive AND know that he is interested in you but you are intimidated to ask him out? It sounds like you have no risk of rejection which is what most men have to deal with when approaching a beautiful woman.
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Old 06-29-2014, 09:33 PM
Location: "Silicon Valley" (part of San Francisco Bay Area, California, USA)
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I'm not intimidated by beautiful women, but I have zero chance with anyone so I'm a special case.
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