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Old 01-19-2014, 02:14 PM
 
Location: Nashville, TN -
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I was just going to say that. That woman might be really, really, really, hot, but.......... to be sexy, one must have brains.
OMG, there are ACTUALLY men out there that think this way?? And to think that I thought this day couldn't get any better! A good night's sleep; a good, hot cup of coffee; a nice, long hike outside in the sunshine with my music; a great book to read; a nice dinner to prepare for Sunday night; and now this? Wow.

Are you a man, Magnatomicflux?
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Old 01-19-2014, 02:15 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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There's nothing wrong with "sexiness". I am drawn to sexiness just as I am sure many other posters are. Being sexy isn't a bad thing at all. It's when you see some men/ women trying too hard to be sexy that it can be perceived as lame/ bad/ negative. Like the muscle roided out guys who live in the gym. Or the women who work out too much. Have the whole six pack. Which, in my opinion and I am a guy, it is not sexy. A flat stomach is sexy. A six pack on a woman is not. That's just my opinion. I like my women to look soft/ girly. Not overly toned. I guess I just prefer natural sexiness. Someone who doesn't have to work on it like it's a job. I'm sure many others can say the same thing.

However, we ALL have to work to keep/ maintain it sooner or later. Father time passes no one by. Off topic: It's hard posting in between the football game. Thankfully with football, there are a lot of breaks!
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Thank GOD there are some men who feel this way!
Any man with a shred of a brain thinks this way.....
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Old 01-19-2014, 02:15 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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What exactly is so wrong about sex appeal? How come guys go on about it being a bad idea to be with a sexy woman (outside of for sex), and why is it definitely a no-no to be with a VERY sexy woman? I don't at all mean any kind of twerksome hoe - I mean that lady who walks into the room with a killa body and a regal air and owns the room in seconds with her sex appeal and aura alone. That kind of sexy woman, the one who looks sexy fully clothed. Can the fellas out there please explain the reasoning behind this discrimination against uber-sexiness? Part 2 of the question I guess, is that if you find a woman mesmerisingly sexy, can you ever move past this and just appreciate her as a person? Will it always cloud (even sully) your interactions with her?
Your thread makes me wonder... Does sexy woman equal short skirt, halter top, and stilettos, with hair done and lots of dramatic eye make-up? It's possible you are confusing "uber" sexy with trashy. And that regal air? May come off as a stuck up attitude.

Basically I have never seen men not want to date or marry, a well rounded (personality wise), sexy woman.
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Old 01-19-2014, 02:17 PM
 
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absolutely. It's very intimidating
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Old 01-19-2014, 02:18 PM
 
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Any man with a shred of a brain thinks this way.....
That's good to know, and thanks for saying. <3
I really felt confused.
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Old 01-19-2014, 02:20 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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OMG, there are ACTUALLY men out there that think this way?? And to think that I thought this day couldn't get any better! A good night's sleep; a good, hot cup of coffee; a nice, long hike outside in the sunshine with my music; a great book to read; a nice dinner to prepare for Sunday night; and now this? Wow.

Are you a man, Magnatomicflux?

Yep.


We're out there.
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Old 01-19-2014, 02:21 PM
 
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Your thread makes me wonder... Does sexy woman equal short skirt, halter top, and stilettos, with hair done and lots of dramatic eye make-up? It's possible you are confusing "uber" sexy with trashy. And that regal air? May come off as a stuck up attitude.

Basically I have never seen men not want to date or marry, a well rounded (personality wise), sexy woman.
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Old 01-19-2014, 02:21 PM
 
Location: Nashville, TN -
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What exactly is so wrong about sex appeal? How come guys go on about it being a bad idea to be with a sexy woman (outside of for sex), and why is it definitely a no-no to be with a VERY sexy woman? I don't at all mean any kind of twerksome hoe - I mean that lady who walks into the room with a killa body and a regal air and owns the room in seconds with her sex appeal and aura alone. That kind of sexy woman, the one who looks sexy fully clothed. Can the fellas out there please explain the reasoning behind this discrimination against uber-sexiness? Part 2 of the question I guess, is that if you find a woman mesmerisingly sexy, can you ever move past this and just appreciate her as a person? Will it always cloud (even sully) your interactions with her?

Might this post be about you, Shoane?? If it is, what else do you have to offer, besides your "mesmerizing sexiness"?

I'm a heterosexual woman, but if I were a heterosexual man, I would certainly be looking for a woman who is a whole package, so to speak (just as I like a man who is a whole package). You don't mention anything about this woman's intellect, her character, her level of kindness and sincerity, her sense of humor or honor, her genuine interest in and concern for others, her curiosity about the world and open-mindedness to other points of view, her conversational skills, her work ethic, etc. The entire post talks about nothing besides "sexiness."

I'm all for sexy and fit and attractive, but there's gotta be a whole lot more to a person that that, imo.

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Old 01-19-2014, 02:24 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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That's good to know, and thanks for saying. <3
I really felt confused.
I don't know of any grown man in his say, late 30's and beyond that doesn't think the way I do. Most mature intelligent and normal men don't run around being lead by their joint.

This forum is not, I repeat, is not indicative of the people I've seen in real life.
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Old 01-19-2014, 02:27 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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I don't know of any grown man in his say, late 30's and beyond that doesn't think the way I do. Most mature intelligent and normal men don't run around being lead by their joint.

This forum is not, I repeat, is not indicative of the people I've seen in real life.

Ooooooor maybe early 30's? lol


I've thought like this since probably my late teens though.
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