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Old 01-18-2014, 10:31 PM
 
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I am interested in a girl, but she isn't interested in anyone. But there is a guy - call him a rival, if you will - who also has an interest in her. Problem is, he too has a good job and most of all extremely handsome, like a movie star. I am no match for him.

Feel so depressed.
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Old 01-18-2014, 10:37 PM
 
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Horsecrap. You are much more intelligent, clever, and are bolder than he is! Right?
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Old 01-18-2014, 10:40 PM
 
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I am interested in a girl, but she isn't interested in anyone. But there is a guy - call him a rival, if you will - who also has an interest in her. Problem is, he too has a good job and most of all extremely handsome, like a movie star. I am no match for him.

Feel so depressed.
Is this your 18 year-old "potential" GF? How old is the other guy? Maybe he is closer to her age.
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Old 01-18-2014, 10:41 PM
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I am interested in a girl, but she isn't interested in anyone. But there is a guy - call him a rival, if you will - who also has an interest in her. Problem is, he too has a good job and most of all extremely handsome, like a movie star. I am no match for him.

Feel so depressed.

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Old 01-19-2014, 01:44 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I am interested in a girl, but she isn't interested in anyone. But there is a guy - call him a rival, if you will - who also has an interest in her. Problem is, he too has a good job and most of all extremely handsome, like a movie star. I am no match for him.

Feel so depressed.

she's 18, you're 30 and you're being a wuss like this? good lord dude. you don't deserve anyone until you can get yourself a pair of balls
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Old 01-19-2014, 01:52 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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I don't know the situation... but if others are correct and you're 30 and she's 18....

It's time to move on.
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Old 01-19-2014, 02:04 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Plenty of barely legals out there
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Old 01-19-2014, 02:36 AM
 
Location: Caverns measureless to man...
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I am interested in a girl, but she isn't interested in anyone. But there is a guy - call him a rival, if you will - who also has an interest in her. Problem is, he too has a good job and most of all extremely handsome, like a movie star. I am no match for him.
That's terrific. The information you're sharing with us suggests that the only thing he has going for him over you is that he's better looking. If that's the case, this sounds like an opportunity to reach down inside, identify what it is about yourself that's truly unique and special, and develop those traits into something that will set you apart and put you head and shoulders above any romantic rival.

What are you good at? What is it about you that's truly remarkable? What do you have to offer that nobody else has going for them? Find it. Figure out what it is about you that makes you a better catch than him, and then figure out how to develop that aspect of who you are and present it in a way that leaves no doubt in her mind and her heart that she can't take the chance of letting you get away.

And if, after all that, she still wants him because his picture looks nicer than yours, that's great too. Because you found out early that you two just aren't compatible.

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Old 01-19-2014, 03:20 AM
 
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she's 18, you're 30 and you're being a wuss like this? good lord dude. you don't deserve anyone until you can get yourself a pair of balls
What are you talking about???? She is only a year younger than me.
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Old 01-19-2014, 03:33 AM
 
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I am interested in a girl, but she isn't interested in anyone. But there is a guy - call him a rival, if you will - who also has an interest in her. Problem is, he too has a good job and most of all extremely handsome, like a movie star. I am no match for him.

Feel so depressed.
I'm sorry. That must suck. Guess you'll have to find a girl who absolutely cannot do any better than you.
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