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View Poll Results: Would you remain in a relationship after you found out they were awful at sex?
Yes 15 23.81%
No 31 49.21%
Maybe 17 26.98%
Voters: 63. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 01-26-2014, 04:01 PM
 
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Can't they learn to be better? Can I teach them? I'm pretty quick anyway (I don't mind).
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Old 01-26-2014, 04:06 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Can't they learn to be better? Can I teach them?
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Old 01-26-2014, 04:11 PM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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I'll go with that minx on that.

To me intuition and willingness to learn are paramount to being a good lover for both men and women.

And no I would not remain in a relationship where the sex was mediocre
Im with you and minx on this one. Sex is pretty important
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Old 01-26-2014, 04:13 PM
 
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Being good in the sack isn't rocket science, most of the time when someones isn't it's just lazieness and not worryng about whether or not the other person had a good time or not.

I wouldn't be with a woman that wasn't at least interested in trying to have a decent sex life.

My mother was a prude, major prude about sex.

Being a prude about sex is one of my biggest turnoffs, she doesn't have to be some kind of sex godess, just not a prude.... LOL

I wonder how many more times I can work the word "prude" into this post.....
Hmm.. This comment is inspiring me to make a thread of my own.
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Old 01-26-2014, 04:14 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Some people can learn, and others have hang-ups or damage from the past that prevents progress. If it's going to take a lot to get them over past issues, or to train them, then it's not worth it given all the other "work" that may be involved in maintaining a relationship.

My current (and best) relationship had early, excellent sexual compatibility, and great compatibility in every other way. It's not only easy, but tremendously satisfying and exciting sexually.

I did have another relationship where I had to teach her (inexperience), but she was a very willing student and soon became a great sex partner. She'd learn what someone else likes easily too - she's learned how to learn.
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Old 01-26-2014, 04:16 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Hmm.. This comment is inspiring me to make a thread of my own.
Do it! Make sure you say prude a lot. I think Chow actually wants prunes, get the motion of the ocean in his buttock.
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Old 01-26-2014, 04:52 PM
 
Location: Phoenix, Az
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I left my last girlfriend over it (with a couple of other reasons on top of that), but having been with the freaks, I can't say I want to be with someone who is not at this point.

I don't have too many deal breakers, but it's one of them.
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Old 01-26-2014, 05:09 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Dan Savage calls it GGG: good, giving, and game. If you have the latter two, you'll be fine.

Edited: "Game," adjective, meaning willing and interested. Not that PUA stuff.
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Old 01-26-2014, 05:17 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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IMO, freakiness isn't something you cant learn, you're born with it and Im not about to teach someone. So, NO, I wouldn't be with someone who sucks in the sack very long.

I might reconsider if she can compensate with good fellatio, and that shiit better be sloppy good
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Old 01-26-2014, 05:39 PM
 
Location: In nature
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IME all the men I've been with don't have the first clue about pleasuring a woman. They s*ck!! So it's either be with men who s*ck in bed or be alone. I'll choose alone because my vibrator NEVER disappoints nor does it wine and cry that I'm not paying enough attention to it. It's the perfect man!
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