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You are completely expecting for something in return!(unconditional love, no less) Thats the main point of your post... Your giving him sexual favors and affection (such a rare commodity in this world), and he's not reciprocating in the manner that you expect from him (and that he's generally a low level person). After all, if anything your priceless, he should be willing to do anything for you...
lol. Like I said, you guys are perfect for each other.
I think you're getting defensive because you realize the severity of the situation but don't want to accept it. I've been there.
And OH GOD, I think you're dating my ex. Please get out of this relationship now. He is a tremendously insecure, manipulative, vindictive person and not only will he dump all of this onto you, he will feel ENTITLED to dump it on you. He's a professional victim and he needs someone to blame, specifically a woman. Don't be the garbage can for his psychological damage.
You feel bad for him, you feel you owe him because he's so broken. I felt the same way about my ex. But he WANTS you to feel that way, because you feeling indebted to him fits with his role as a professional victim. Do not play along. Trust me, it will cost you dearly.
I got to admit he stalked me the first two times I left him. Coming up to my work place and my school. But i went back with him. He acts like a narcissist but for some reason I cant help but love him. I want to help him but I dont know what to do to start. There's something that I as a woman can do but I dont know what to do; men make mistakes, but I as a woman must have patience and forgive him. At least I think I should keep giving him this. When would it be best to leave? I think maybe more love and nurturing will change him and make him feel better. Sometimes he acts like he doesnt need my love then the next he doesnt.
You asked for advice. Why are you being so abrasive???
You should be asking the male posters here that question. I asked for ADVICE, yes, not INSULTS and DISRESPECTFUL responses. THAT"s why I'm being "abrasive".
You asked for advice. Why are you being so abrasive???
But I'm going to happily leave and take my business elsewhere. Obviously I'm wasting my time here since the majority of the responses are coming from that miserable tofu idiot or whatever his name is.
Your screen name and your on-line attitude are complete opposites.
You do not come across sweet at all.
Stop with the insults.
How can anyone take you seriously with your awful attitude?
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), and he's not reciprocating in the manner that you expect from him (and that he's generally a low level person). After all, if anything your priceless, he should be willing to do anything for you...
