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Old 02-02-2014, 10:49 AM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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. . . especially as the person isn't cheating to get their fill of others.
I'm sure the bf would get the distinction. Just as the OP would if the shoe were on the other foot.

 
Old 02-02-2014, 10:50 AM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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Hey at least she likes male genitals!
 
Old 02-02-2014, 10:50 AM
 
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I'm sure the bf would get the distinction. Just as the OP would if the shoe were on the other foot.
He likely would get the distinction however probably wouldn't care due to pride/ego or emotionally 'hurt' that she slept with another. As for the OP it seems she's quite dismissive about him sleeping with others.

Though it's off to me for you to be talking about distinction considering what you claim is hating men. Yeah me responding how I do to stupid and insulting pick up lines means I hate men.
 
Old 02-02-2014, 10:53 AM
 
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Hey at least she likes male genitals!
Egh not really. My size preference has nothing to do with liking male genitals its due to logistics in my opinion of better capability of producing female orgasm/pleasure.
 
Old 02-02-2014, 10:55 AM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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She screwed this guy, twice, within the span of a few days into this "break" she forced on the relationship from "bad information" she got from her girl friend.
It just says to me, this was likely set up in advance. Probably some guy she's been fooling around with via facebook for months, but being on "break" makes her feel better, even though she knew damned good and well she would be returning to her boyfriend.
 
Old 02-02-2014, 11:00 AM
 
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She screwed this guy, twice, within the span of a few days into this "break" she forced on the relationship from "bad information" she got from her girl friend.
It just says to me, this was likely set up in advance. Probably some guy she's been fooling around with via facebook for months, but being on "break" makes her feel better, even though she knew damned good and well she would be returning to her boyfriend.
How'd you get that it was likely a set up in advance or that it's probable she was fooling around with the guy via Facebook for months- the ease of which she slept with the guy? I got that it was likely her fear of commitment using the false information to put a hold on things then acting on her fear of commitment ala sleeping with some guy she met at a restaurant bar (no suggestion/statement that she knew him from before this encounter).
 
Old 02-02-2014, 11:02 AM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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Though it's off to me for you to be talking about distinction considering what you claim is hating men. Yeah me responding how I do to stupid and insulting pick up lines means I hate men.
Yes it does. I'm old now but when I was young I heard my share of pickup lines and not once did I feel the need to make a scene over it. A cool blue icy stare was usually all it took to drive off the more obnoxious ones.
 
Old 02-02-2014, 11:04 AM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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As the world turns...these are the days of our lives...general horse spital.
 
Old 02-02-2014, 11:07 AM
 
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Yes it does. I'm old now but when I was young I heard my share of pickup lines and not once did I feel the need to make a scene over it. A cool blue icy stare was usually all it took to drive off the more obnoxious ones.
Interesting logic that because I do not react the same way you do to stupid and insulting pickup lines I hate men. Again this is projection and you've shown it by seemingly only having that as proof that I pretty much hate men as you claim.

Meh to me he 'made a scene' himself by saying such I'm only turning it to my favor though to me the whole 'make a scene over it' part in response to my reaction suggests some archaic thinking that is 'bad' as in a gal is just making a fuss reminiscent of gals being sexually harassed and reporting it being told they're making a scene/causing trouble.
 
Old 02-02-2014, 11:16 AM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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How'd you get that it was likely a set up in advance or that it's probable she was fooling around with the guy via Facebook for months- the ease of which she slept with the guy? I got that it was likely her fear of commitment using the false information to put a hold on things then acting on her fear of commitment ala sleeping with some guy she met at a restaurant bar (no suggestion/statement that she knew him from before this encounter).


I guess it just seems to me that the timing of everything was awful convienient. She was at the center of everything, from the bad information, to forcing the break, and then being the one to re-establish the relationship when "discovering" the information she recieved from her own friend was "a lie".

Guess I've been cheated on one too many times lol

Anyway, I can see it your way too. However, I don't consider a "break" to mean you're now "single". It is taking a small step back to evaluate a relationship....together. But, that's just me.
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