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Old 01-31-2014, 10:56 PM
 
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I'm confused, OP. I thought you started a thread recently saying you'd found a local girl in AZ.
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Old 01-31-2014, 11:00 PM
 
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I'm confused, OP. I thought you started a thread recently saying you'd found a local girl in AZ.
Hm, that's right, IIRC there is a "secret girl" at home that he hasn't gone public with. What the heck is going on here?
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Old 01-31-2014, 11:01 PM
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I'm confused, OP. I thought you started a thread recently saying you'd found a local girl in AZ.
Which one? Shayla is from Montana, lived here for over a decade, met me, dated and then moved to Idaho.

The only other girl I've mentioned was one on Christmas Eve and I never saw her since.
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Old 01-31-2014, 11:04 PM
 
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Hm, that's right, IIRC there is a "secret girl" at home that he hasn't gone public with. What the heck is going on here?
maybe he's just worried about his friend in Idaho, and wanted some advice. I think at some point in the past they decided they couldn't do a long-distance relationship but they remained friends, but maybe they were both sort of hoping something would happen, but... it didn't.

The kid may be going through an embarrassment-of-riches stage, gf-wise. It's either boom or bust, sometimes. I can't imagine our Desert Kid would be a player. No. He's just kinda confused. Or...something.
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Old 01-31-2014, 11:05 PM
 
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Which one? Shayla is from Montana, lived here for over a decade, met me, dated and then moved to Idaho.

The only other girl I've mentioned was one on Christmas Eve and I never saw her since.
But...didn't you have a thread about suddenly having a bunch of women interested in you, or something? Sorry, I can't keep track.

So is Shayla your main one?
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Old 01-31-2014, 11:08 PM
 
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But...didn't you have a thread about suddenly having a bunch of women interested in you, or something? Sorry, I can't keep track.

So is Shayla your main one?
I was confused too. So is this a relationship or a friendship?
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Old 01-31-2014, 11:09 PM
 
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If she stays in Idaho, you could consider moving up there, working for a year, then qualifying for in-state tuition for grad school. Just a thought.
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Old 01-31-2014, 11:09 PM
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But...didn't you have a thread about suddenly having a bunch of women interested in you, or something? Sorry, I can't keep track.

So is Shayla your main one?
Yeah. I did. I didn't date any of those other girls, they either disappeared, I wasn't attracted to them or they were plain crazy. After about a 5 year dry spell you pay attention to this sort of thing.

Shayla is my main girl, I just don't know what exactly is going on.

What adds to the mystery is Shayla's roommate and her fiancé (I've known him since early childhood) both dropped off facebook, and are refusing to talk to anybody. Shayla would be closer to the whole thing, and she's already told me she isn't happy about the situation.
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Old 01-31-2014, 11:12 PM
 
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Yeah. I did. I didn't date any of those other girls, they either disappeared, I wasn't attracted to them or they were plain crazy. After about a 5 year dry spell you pay attention to this sort of thing.

Shayla is my main girl, I just don't know what exactly is going on.

What adds to the mystery is Shayla's roommate and her fiancé (I've known him since early childhood) both dropped off facebook, and are refusing to talk to anybody. Shayla would be closer to the whole thing, and she's already told me she isn't happy about the situation.
OK, thx for the clarification.

Strange behavior on the part of that couple. And now suddenly Shayla's gone incommunicado, too? Odd. All you can do is wait it out, though.
Have you called her and left a message that you're worried about her? Maybe she's feeling a little betrayed or led astray by her roommate, who convinced her to move and start a new life up there together, sharing the rent, then suddenly she leaves Shayla holding the bag.
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Old 01-31-2014, 11:14 PM
 
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Yeah. I did. I didn't date any of those other girls, they either disappeared, I wasn't attracted to them or they were plain crazy. After about a 5 year dry spell you pay attention to this sort of thing.

Shayla is my main girl, I just don't know what exactly is going on.

What adds to the mystery is Shayla's roommate and her fiancé (I've known him since early childhood) both dropped off facebook, and are refusing to talk to anybody. Shayla would be closer to the whole thing, and she's already told me she isn't happy about the situation.
I thought they were friends? Isn't she happy for them? Does she not like the guy?

I remember those years when all my friends were getting engaged and married and moving into their own places... it was exciting sending everyone off to live their grownup lives. Those were fun times.
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