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I would like to know what you think of this. As for me, I've decided to wait because I love my gf.
We've been dating for nearly 6 months and it's also my first relationship (I'm also a virgin and 19 years old). Thing is, we do the other things except intercourse or anal.
I've been lately masturbating more often and sometimes imagine how it would be like if we were doing it. I don't mind if she decides to do it while in the relationship but it's really up to her and I respect her choice. Only thing is we'll be like this for years until finishing college. It turns me on even when we were in the swimming pool and making-out. Or the other time where she got on top of me and we were humping each other with clothes on.
I hope for the best and that this last. I would hate to get suddenly because then it would mean all the waiting and exercising self-restrain would be all for nothing (I mean, I'm willing to sacrifice sex if that's how she wants the relationship to be like for years until our wedding). At the same time, I still get tempted like any guy but managed to control my high sex drive. I guess it's even harder if he's a virgin himself and girl is making him wait that long while doing the other things. I do want to eventually have a child but when I'm older offcourse and done with college.
JoeCollege I've been practicing self-restrain all these 6 months so I'm slowing it down with her. Only thing I can't help is when I get hard esp when you're very attracted to her in every possible way. Hence, why I masturbate often now but I'm willing to wait.
I sort of did this when I was 18 for 6 months. The woman I was in a relationship with was far from a virgin but she would always say if I said I loved her she would have sex with me. I found this manipulative, but still dated her for 6 months. When I broke things off I told her exactly why.
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