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Old 02-09-2014, 12:21 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Jealousy comes from insecurity and a need to control. Get rid of him.
I agree.

Consistently jealous people are emotionally stunted and immature.

Most of us eventually outgrow it, but until a person does they are not ready for a serious relationship.
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Old 02-09-2014, 12:25 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I can't figure out if the OP is the jealous guy, or the girl dating him.
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Old 02-09-2014, 12:28 PM
 
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Jealousy and possessiveness are closely related but are different things. I think it's okay, and even best if you feel a little of both.
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Old 02-09-2014, 12:29 PM
 
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Jealousy and possessiveness are closely related but are different things. I think it's okay, and even best if you feel a little of both.
Sorry, but those are two emotions that add nothing to anyone's life.

They just zap your positive energy and are not good choices.
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Old 02-09-2014, 12:40 PM
 
Location: Texas
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A little bit of jealousy is normal
No...not really.
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Old 02-09-2014, 12:46 PM
 
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And, for the record, Stan4 is MINE.
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Old 02-09-2014, 01:11 PM
 
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And, for the record, Stan4 is MINE.
I've got dibs on her car......
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Old 02-09-2014, 01:12 PM
 
Location: Texas
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And, for the record, Stan4 is MINE.
Yes, dear.
It is so cute how you read all my emails ands texts so I don't have to.
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Old 02-09-2014, 01:58 PM
 
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Yes, dear.
It is so cute how you read all my emails ands texts so I don't have to.
Wouldn't your wife get a chuckle out of you having an adoring admirer here
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Old 02-09-2014, 04:29 PM
 
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Jealousy is insecurity. Some if it is brought in by past event s and others is people just ignoring the red flags and trying to work it out by brute force.

Jealousy isn't just caused by the offending party. It can be as simple as someone not practicing what they preach all the time making people question their true motivations and intentions
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