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Old 02-18-2014, 07:23 AM
 
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some women want to control the wedding and the marriage! if the bride is going to make decisions for the wedding why can't the man make all the decisions in the marriage? it is either you plan the wedding and i make all the decisions and plans in the marriage you can't have it both ways women!
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Old 02-18-2014, 08:15 AM
 
Location: Avery Ranch, Austin, TX
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That's not the only thing that's wrong
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Old 02-18-2014, 08:17 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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some women want to control the wedding and the marriage! if the bride is going to make decisions for the wedding why can't the man make all the decisions in the marriage? it is either you plan the wedding and i make all the decisions and plans in the marriage you can't have it both ways women!
Why don't you wait until you actually get a woman to agree to marry you to worry about this stuff?
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Old 02-18-2014, 08:21 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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So, one person gets to make decisions for one day and the other person gets to make decisions for the rest of their lives? Yeah, sounds perfectly healthy.

When you are old enough to date, you might see things differently.
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Old 02-18-2014, 08:24 AM
 
Location: NY
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Why hello there "new" member.

Nobody wants to be in a controlling relationship no matter what the topic or issue at hand. Generally, couples will work through their differences both in wedding planning and marriage.

Have a good day.
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Old 02-18-2014, 08:41 AM
 
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I cant think of one single straight man that wanted to "control" the wedding. Most don't even want an actual traditional ceremony. If anything most women would welcome their groom to contribute to the planning. I've actually know more women who finally said heck with it and just eloped or had a relative plan the wedding or hired a wedding planner.
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Old 02-18-2014, 08:42 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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I agree that some brides turn into control freaks--hence the term "bridezilla." Planning a wedding is a great way to see 1) how she handles stress, 2) her attitude about money and whether it matches yours, and 3) whether she sees the wedding as "her day" or a celebration for both of you. If she's a bridezilla, don't marry her!
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Old 02-18-2014, 09:29 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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I cant think of one single straight man that wanted to "control" the wedding. Most don't even want an actual traditional ceremony. If anything most women would welcome their groom to contribute to the planning. I've actually know more women who finally said heck with it and just eloped or had a relative plan the wedding or hired a wedding planner.
Yeah, I'd pretty much wouldn't mind letting her deal with all of the "stuff" regarding it. Luckily, if we ever get married, it would be something super simple.
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Old 02-18-2014, 09:36 AM
 
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Yeah, I'd pretty much wouldn't mind letting her deal with all of the "stuff" regarding it. Luckily, if we ever get married, it would be something super simple.
An outside simple wedding is the best

We were married out in the woods on a sunny fall day. A creek babbled behind us and the glorious fall colors were all the decoration needed
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Old 02-18-2014, 09:37 AM
 
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Cuz the groom has no testicle fortitude.
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