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View Poll Results: What is the feature you often fantasize of?
Body 7 31.82%
Face 5 22.73%
Good dose of above two 6 27.27%
I am more abstract (explain) 4 18.18%
Voters: 22. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 02-26-2014, 05:15 PM
 
Location: Sydney, Australia
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When it comes to the person's feature, where is the focus on in your 'fantasy'?

I hear some people don't have a fantasy and do it 'blankly'.
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Old 02-26-2014, 05:18 PM
 
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voyer...

the only person i care to know about their fantasy is the babe on the other side of my sexting. i could care less about what some other chode's fantasy is about.

any how does this relate to relationships besides your carnal curiosity?
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Old 02-26-2014, 05:20 PM
 
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I generally fantasize about my own sexual pleasure, my own orgasm, and how I will be pre-orgasm and post-orgasm.

I don't fantasize about a person as I'm heterosexual with no homosexual tendencies so that would mean fantasizing about a male which isn't logical to me. I tend to be logical and for me it's not logical to fantasize about a male since I find the male body to be pretty much useless in providing female orgasm.
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Old 02-26-2014, 05:22 PM
 
Location: SW Missouri
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I fantasize about living on the beach.

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Old 02-26-2014, 05:22 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I think about udolipixie. Sociopaths are such a turn on!
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Old 02-26-2014, 05:32 PM
 
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I generally fantasize about my own sexual pleasure, my own orgasm, and how I will be pre-orgasm and post-orgasm.

I don't fantasize about a person as I'm heterosexual with no homosexual tendencies so that would mean fantasizing about a male which isn't logical to me. I tend to be logical and for me it's not logical to fantasize about a male since I find the male body to be pretty much useless in providing female orgasm.
sounds complicated, almost like getting turned on by watching a video of yourself getting turned on. or do i have it wrong? like getting turned on by stimulation instead of visualization?

funny, i think most guys fantasize about visual imagery
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Old 02-26-2014, 06:04 PM
 
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sounds complicated, almost like getting turned on by watching a video of yourself getting turned on. or do i have it wrong? like getting turned on by stimulation instead of visualization?

funny, i think most guys fantasize about visual imagery
I get turned on by the thought of pleasure not the image of me being turned on. It's more of being turned on by stimulation or the concept of stimulation instead of visualization. Such as I get turned on by the concept of how I will feel having an orgasm not the image of me having an orgasm. Perhaps that helps to make things sound less complicated.
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Old 02-26-2014, 06:09 PM
 
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I get turned on by the thought of pleasure not the image of me being turned on. It's more of being turned on by stimulation or the concept of stimulation instead of visualization. Such as I get turned on by the concept of how I will feel having an orgasm not the image of me having an orgasm. Perhaps that helps to make things sound less complicated.
yeah, sure does. just really never really thought about it from a female perspective since i, of course, come from a different biological perspective. even during sex with a partner, the visual stimulation is still an important factor for me. there is a point, however, where the lights are off and the physical stimulation attention takes over. nice feedback. thanks.
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Old 02-26-2014, 06:14 PM
 
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yeah, sure does. just really never really thought about it from a female perspective since i, of course, come from a different biological perspective. even during sex with a partner, the visual stimulation is still an important factor. there is a point, however, where the lights are off and the physical stimulation attention takes over. nice feedback. thanks.
Egh if you meant 'a female perspective' as in what gals in general like, what most gals like, or something common among gals... It's most likely suited not to think of my answers as coming from a female perspective in such a manner as I highly doubt when it comes to sex I'm like gals in general or most gals. I find I'm quite uncommon as I love my sexual pleasure and orgasms and see no point in sex or a sexual act if I'm not getting sexual pleasure or an orgasm.
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Old 02-26-2014, 06:20 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I fantasize about LS Laun on a hot plate.
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