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Old 02-19-2014, 10:54 AM
 
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Normal? Creepy? Desperate and pathetic?
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Old 02-19-2014, 10:57 AM
 
Location: Middle America
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Like, an online crush? Or a celebrity/public figure crush?
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Old 02-19-2014, 10:59 AM
 
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Crushes are normal, since they are general more of a projection than reality. They can turn problematic when people don't understand them for what they are and inject more fantasy into them.
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Old 02-19-2014, 11:42 AM
 
Location: Western Colorado
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Like my crush on Jennifer Lawrence? Yeah creepy.
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Old 02-19-2014, 11:52 AM
 
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If you are hiding in her bushes in the middle of the night...yeah...not normal.

Gazing at your kids teacher at 'parent/teacher conference...yeah pathetic.
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Old 02-19-2014, 11:58 AM
 
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If you are hiding in her bushes in the middle of the night...yeah...not normal.

Gazing at your kids teacher at 'parent/teacher conference...yeah pathetic.
How about if she's a gal you've seen at track meets, you looked at her bib number, looked at the results to see which name corresponds to that bib, and then Googled her name, just out of curiosity?
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Old 02-19-2014, 12:05 PM
 
Location: The Great West
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How about if she's a gal you've seen at track meets, you looked at her bib number, looked at the results to see which name corresponds to that bib, and then Googled her name, just out of curiosity?
I really don't think that's getting into the 'weird' realm yet. Maybe it would start getting weird if you added her on Facebook and sent creepy messages telling her how hot she is. Or you start legitimately stalking her.
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Old 02-19-2014, 12:27 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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Like my crush on Jennifer Lawrence? Yeah creepy.
Nah, that's pretty normal. Pretty much every heterosexual male I've met has that crush. And a good many females too...
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Old 02-19-2014, 12:35 PM
 
Location: Pacific Northwest
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I'm a serial crusher. I have multiple crushes at once.

OP you're not crazy.
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Old 02-19-2014, 12:37 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Nah, that's pretty normal. Pretty much every heterosexual male I've met has that crush. And a good many females too...
For good reason!
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