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We also have a joint Facebook page which I set up. I also subscribe to his facebook page.
I decided that if I am tagged in a post of his on our joint Facebook page or on his Facebook page, I will reply with a term of endearment that he has used with his female friends.
Several of his friends, male and female, are on our joint Facebook page.
Hopefully everyone will take notice.
I don't get it. What does this accomplish? If you each have FB, why make a joint one? Why are you dealing with this problem via FB? It's not a FB problem...
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I don't get it. What does this accomplish? If you each have FB, why make a joint one? Why are you dealing with this problem via FB? It's not a FB problem...
Yep need to tell him face to face that it is inappropriate.
Yep need to tell him face to face that it is inappropriate.
And only he can change his behavior. She can play all these games, and if he doesn't wan't to change he'll just go about a different way.
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I told my husband that his using terms of endearment for his female friends is not appropriate.
I have been telling God how I feel about his behavior. That idea came to me after telling God how I feel about his behavior. I just decided run with it.
I told my husband that his using terms of endearment for his female friends is not appropriate.
I have been telling God how I feel about his behavior. That idea came to me after telling God how I feel about his behavior. I just decided run with it.
I'm sorry, I laughed, hon.
Hon.
If God is God He already knows how you feel about the behavior. He already knows about the behavior. He knows how you feel. He knows why the husband is doing this actually.
The reason the husband is doing this actually, is just because, no reason.
Trust me, you are going nuclear over nothing. I call everybody hon and sweetie. I love people and I love my facebook friends. It doesn't mean I want to jump in the sack naked with 99.9% of my facebook list.
My special guy gets called 'honey' as well, as do my children.
Trust me, you are going nuclear over nothing. I call everybody hon and sweetie. I love people and I love my facebook friends. It doesn't mean I want to jump in the sack naked with 99.9% of my facebook list.
My special guy gets called 'honey' as well, as do my children.
My husband and I are having a debate regarding the use of terms of endearment.
He uses terms of endearment with his female facebook friends because he wants his female friends to feel at home with him. He wants his female friends to feel that they can talk to him about almost anything. He wants his female friends to feel like they are family.
The tems of endearment he uses are...
hon
darling
sweetie
and so on
I am the opposite. I just do not understand the need for that.
Is this really necessary?
Apparently, his concern for his female "friends" takes precedence over his concern for you.
I wasn't married when that happened to me, but I packed my bags.
Trust me, you are going nuclear over nothing. I call everybody hon and sweetie. I love people and I love my facebook friends. It doesn't mean I want to jump in the sack naked with 99.9% of my facebook list.
I wounder if any guys jump in bed nude whilst on FB.
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