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View Poll Results: Would you date a 30 year old virgin?
Yes 86 58.50%
No 61 41.50%
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Old 04-16-2014, 11:44 PM
 
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But thats my point. I don't know any I would even guess are virgins. Its not something I had thought about barely at all, till threads like these.
I had a cousin that wasn't very attractive and had a lot of health problems. From what I know she never had any romantic attention. I'd guess she was a virgin but it wasn't something I ever thought was my business.
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Old 04-17-2014, 12:21 AM
 
Location: Vernon, British Columbia
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How would they figure it out exactly?
The same way the rest of us did. We were all virgins at one point. Chances are, if you're posting on CD, you still are.
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Old 04-17-2014, 12:40 AM
 
Location: San Francisco
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My first thought was... "I wouldn't date a 30 year old!"
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Old 04-17-2014, 08:11 AM
 
Location: Vernon, British Columbia
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My first thought was... "I wouldn't date a 30 year old!"
Nor should you. I believe the sluts should date each other, and virgins and others with little experience should date each other, leaving the STDs for the sluts. Not only does it limit the number of people with HPV, but it proves more compatible marriages sexually.
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Old 04-17-2014, 12:03 PM
 
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But thats my point. I don't know any I would even guess are virgins. Its not something I had thought about barely at all, till threads like these.
Some people can hide it better than others. I'm 27 coming 28 and no one EVER asks me if I'm a virgin, or about my sex life, or about any relationships I've had. Nobody honestly cares, its not a concern to most people. I probably will be a virgin at 30 (not set in stone obviously) and I would say there's every chance nobody will be asking about it then.

Now you could look at it two ways, one could be like I say that I act 'normal' enough that it remains undetected, or secondly, and still very likely, people do assume you are a virgin through your odd behaviour, or the fact that you don't talk about women very much and are ultimately are too polite to enquire about it incase they upset you in some way.

I have no idea if people talk behind my back and say "hmm I reckon that guys a virgin", but they've certainly never asked it to my face.
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Old 04-17-2014, 12:24 PM
 
Location: San Francisco
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My first thought was... "I wouldn't date a 30 year old!"

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Nor should you. I believe the sluts should date each other, and virgins and others with little experience should date each other, leaving the STDs for the sluts. Not only does it limit the number of people with HPV, but it proves more compatible marriages sexually.

I'm sorry, but I'm confused. Are you equating age with sputtery? Maybe I'm misreading you, but it sounds like you're saying the fact that I wouldn't want to date anyone that much younger than I am means I've got STDs.
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Old 04-17-2014, 01:51 PM
 
Location: Vernon, British Columbia
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I'm sorry, but I'm confused. Are you equating age with sputtery? Maybe I'm misreading you, but it sounds like you're saying the fact that I wouldn't want to date anyone that much younger than I am means I've got STDs.
Sorry, I probably wasn't that clear. Age is also appropriate. When ages are the same, the people who like to sleep around are much happier with others who like to sleep around. Same goes for people who "save themselves for 'the one'." It's a compatibility issue, though there are always exceptions to every rule.
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Old 04-18-2014, 09:43 PM
 
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No need to tell a girl you are a virgin....Just lie and than lose your virginity and if the sex is horrible who cares?? Just make sure you don't see that Girl again...Even if you last 1 minute who cares??? You will never see that girl again nor do you owe her "Good" sex....You don't owe a one night stand anything.

Get a few quick sexual encounters in with random chicks and than try to go for a good Girlfriend.
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Old 04-18-2014, 09:48 PM
 
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Sure, I wouldn't mind being his sexual teacher. Seriously, this wouldn't be a problem. Being a virgin doesn't mean someone can't be good in bed, it just takes practice.
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Old 04-21-2014, 05:26 PM
 
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Sure, I wouldn't mind being his sexual teacher. Seriously, this wouldn't be a problem. Being a virgin doesn't mean someone can't be good in bed, it just takes practice.
i'm surprised
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