Is infidelity really a bad thing? (wives, boyfriend, girlfriend, marriage)
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You are in real need of new friends, associates, and places to hang out bob.
To be fair, I think bob is only talking about one couple, the woman he is obsessed with and the "player" she slept with. They are the subject of every thread he has started for the past 2 years.
-People who don't care if people know/want people to know
-People who think it's a badge of their prowess/supposed "alpha"-ness
-People who are firmly convinced its their partner's fault for having shortcomings and want pity
-People who are narcissists
-People who are sociopaths
-People who have already been busted
There's a bit of overlap in many of these, granted.
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And yes, some couples are able to work through it with no future infidelity.
But who wants to take that risk, and, moreover, with somebody you can no longer trust or respect, because it's out in the open that s/he's a liar, on the off-chance that it wouldn't ever happen again? Not me.
-People who don't care if people know/want people to know
-People who think it's a badge of their prowess/supposed "alpha"-ness
-People who are firmly convinced its their partner's fault for having shortcomings and want pity
-People who are narcissists
-People who are sociopaths
-People who have already been busted
There's a bit of overlap in many of these, granted.
But who wants to take that risk, and, moreover, with somebody you can no longer trust or respect, because it's out in the open that s/he's a liar, on the off-chance that it wouldn't ever happen again? Not me.
To be fair, I think bob is only talking about one couple, the woman he is obsessed with and the "player" she slept with. They are the subject of every thread he has started for the past 2 years.
The player is now busted. lol. His wife divorced him. She was the bread winner and now he has to make child support payments on near minimum wage. He also got a DUI which sort of sobered him up a bit. Oh, plus I kicked his *** and one of the girls he was cheating with got married. Sweet.
What I was posting here includes the whole group. Many 'dogs' as they call themselves that have multiple partners. One (not the player) is married and tatooed the names of his two kids on his stomach. Then he was reported to HR for running his hand down the shirt and pants of one of the sales girls right in the middle of the bullpin as a show for everyone. The sales manager reported but it was consensual. The girl liked it.
When I kicked the players *** for getting up in my face, HR was again called. When I told my boss what he said, his response was, "Oh, he's just a dog. He's really a good guy." This coming from a man who is now separated because his wife was cheating. He now dates all kinds of women and keeps this from his children (or so he thinks...I'm sure they know). It's funny because he was quite broken up about it and says he really misses his family, but yet his 'dogness' won't allow him to discredit the player.
All of these guys 4-5, wear infidelity like a badge. They braig about it. All have broken homes or children from other relationships. On the one hand I can see the fun, but really it is just ****** selfish and disrespectful. Espectially to the children. I mean I watch them flat out lie to one girl after the other say the other girl is nothing. And these girls believe them until they are the new nothing. Then everyone of them left the group as they were dumped for another and they were suddenly hurt.
And to some posters who quipped I'm complaining because I couldn't get lucky. Well, some of these girls came my way too and I said no thanks. One I liked a great deal and she is now married, but I wasn't going near that no matter how nice.
I like to have fun, but **** this is just selfish and irresponsible. I just wondered what others thought because here it is just everyday stuff. No big deal and it just seems so ignorant to me. I wondered if I might be wrong.
The player is now busted. lol. His wife divorced him. She was the bread winner and now he has to make child support payments on near minimum wage. He also got a DUI which sort of sobered him up a bit. Oh, plus I kicked his *** and one of the girls he was cheating with got married. Sweet.
What I was posting here includes the whole group. Many 'dogs' as they call themselves that have multiple partners. One (not the player) is married and tatooed the names of his two kids on his stomach. Then he was reported to HR for running his hand down the shirt and pants of one of the sales girls right in the middle of the bullpin as a show for everyone. The sales manager reported but it was consensual. The girl liked it.
When I kicked the players *** for getting up in my face, HR was again called. When I told my boss what he said, his response was, "Oh, he's just a dog. He's really a good guy." This coming from a man who is now separated because his wife was cheating. He now dates all kinds of women and keeps this from his children (or so he thinks...I'm sure they know). It's funny because he was quite broken up about it and says he really misses his family, but yet his 'dogness' won't allow him to discredit the player.
All of these guys 4-5, wear infidelity like a badge. They braig about it. All have broken homes or children from other relationships. On the one hand I can see the fun, but really it is just ****** selfish and disrespectful. Espectially to the children. I mean I watch them flat out lie to one girl after the other say the other girl is nothing. And these girls believe them until they are the new nothing. Then everyone of them left the group as they were dumped for another and they were suddenly hurt.
And to some posters who quipped I'm complaining because I couldn't get lucky. Well, some of these girls came my way too and I said no thanks. One I liked a great deal and she is now married, but I wasn't going near that no matter how nice.
I like to have fun, but **** this is just selfish and irresponsible. I just wondered what others thought because here it is just everyday stuff. No big deal and it just seems so ignorant to me. I wondered if I might be wrong.
You seem to be associating with the dregs of society.
I highly suggest you find some new friends and places to hang out
You seem to be associating with the dregs of society.
I highly suggest you find some new friends and places to hang out
Couldn't have said it better myself.
Bob, you seem kind of fixated on this bullpuckey. Is this the way you want to live? Why is that? I was going to say get new friends, but now I'm thinking a better bet for starters might be seeing a shrink to find out why you're so into this loser scene. It's depressing. There's so much more to life, uplifting, inspiring stuff. You're making weird choices for what you focus your attention and energy on. What's driving that? Look inside. That's where the answer is.
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