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I see absolutely nothing wrong with conducting your sex life as you see fit, so long as you aren't hurting others.
And in terms of other people judging you, I suppose your direct friends possibly could, but why do people need to know the details? I'm a firm believer that the details of sex lives are private (not prudish, but I like to keep my relationships, money, etc pretty much to myself), and nobody should be judging you.
Will people judge? Yes. Should you let them? No. Just keep yourself safe and have a good time. You're a big girl and you can conduct yourself as so. Other people are not living your life for you.
I talk to my sisters about it.
One of my sisters is married,the other in a long term relationship. They tell me about their sex life all the time,so I figured why not tell them about mine?
My sister that is in a long term relationship is also judgemental,and we had an argument on which was better,this or her many rubber friends. I don't judge her,but she surely judges me.
Its not like I do this every weekend.
Only on Saturdays,and it depends on the season. I am not going to go out in 12 inches of snow.
I don't stay till its closing time. I leave somewhere around 2am(most Nyc bars close at 5am).
I talk to my sisters about it.
One of my sisters is married,the other in a long term relationship. They tell me about their sex life all the time,so I figured why not tell them about mine?
My sister that is in a long term relationship is also judgemental,and we had an argument on which was better,this or her many rubber friends. I don't judge her,but she surely judges me.
Its not like I do this every weekend.
Only on Saturdays,and it depends on the season. I am not going to go out in 12 inches of snow.
I don't stay till its closing time. I leave somewhere around 2am(most Nyc bars close at 5am).
In all your responses here I see you are addressing the "judgmental" issues and some of the logistical processes of your one night stand (they buy me dinner, uh huh), but most of the threads deal with safety, not making judgement calls. Most of us are not judging.
But why have you not addressed the Elephant in the Room - safety issue? Clearly - this is dangerous behavior for a female (and males for that matter) in terms of STD's or violence (and no it's not the same danger one encounters in a supermarket dealing with strangers or in a spousal arrangement - let's get real here).
There is a second concern for your mental health, as some of your threads suggest you have an image problem and using promiscuity to self-medicate.
So,what is wrong with looking for random guys in a bar to sleep with?
Nothing. It's a free country and a lot of guys are happy that there exist women like you.
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Why do guys who do the same thing not looked down on as much as us women?
Ok, we all know there's a "double-standard" and an evolutionary logic behind it. This has been discussed a million times. And I should point out that women perpetuate this double-standard by being drawn to guys to sleep with a lot of women.
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