Is this only a dream?

[meaning]

Originally Posted by k374

I have specifically told her I am not sure of marriage now or until I make up my mind about it and I cannot say when that is and she is free to leave me if she isn't getting what she wants out of the relationship. I said I am happy with the way things are currently and to not pressure me into anything else. So, why would you say I have wasted 2 years of her life? If a woman waits for a guy to make up his mind and she does not want to wait and she waits anyway, then it is her own fault and not the guy's fault.

Well I am VERY sorry your GF has not dump you years ago. She really has wasted 2 years of her life for someone who lives in his own delusional world.

What I want is for her to dump you. Marry someone who is REALISTIC. While you chase your delusions until you die alone.

Because you deserve it.

[highlife2]

Originally Posted by srjth

I don't understand these lists that people have. It's strange to me. You're supposed to just fall in love with someone.

Women have the lists they are just not writen down. This is evidenced by the plethora of men that sturggle and need to improve themselves to breed. Where as the women have so many options they need to do a better job of filtering.

the job of filtering is much better than constantly being insecure about your own ability as a male to attract women.

[highlife2]

Originally Posted by meaning

Well I am VERY sorry your GF has not dump you years ago. She really has wasted 2 years of her life for someone who lives in his own delusional world.

What I want is for her to dump you. Marry someone who is REALISTIC. While you chase your delusions until you die alone.

Because you deserve it.

Isent that exactly what women do?