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In this case I'm employing "tight" in the sense of fit and trim; she is about half the size and weight of the average of all the women I have dated previously.
I don't know, to me, what I find sad in my situation is that as an late bloomer, I missed the innocent, naïve stage of young love (i.e. puppy love).
To quote a fellow redditor,
"I missed out on the critical ages of 14-20 when girls were cute, innocent, cheerful, naïve, and everything was about exploring each other and having a good time instead of strategizing for the long term or using each other"
And now I'm stuck with the emotional/romantic experience of a middle schooler in a college aged body.
Its probably why I idealize romances in anime so much, b/c they all take place in H.S and its all innocent like above guy said. Both characters are attracted to each other. Its all genuine, puppy/unconditional love in there.
IRL, good god, even without experiencing it myself, I can only imagine how different it is and how it'll shatter my delusions.
How old is the OP by the way? It's interesting we're talking about an older virgin who noone knows how old he is. If he's in his twenties, thirties, or maybe even forties, he may still be able to have some fun. If he's 60 then he's screwed.
Women peak in their 30's. Men are on their downhill slide at that age.
*That* is straight up hilarious.
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Originally Posted by freemkt
I think there is a common misconception that addressing the physical component of sex qualifies as a 'fix' of sorts, but in these cases, usually the yearning is overwhelmingly emotional rather than physical and the physical lack is grounded in an emotional lack that in many cases has become intractable.
I don't know, to me, what I find sad in my situation is that as an late bloomer, I missed the innocent, naïve stage of young love (i.e. puppy love).
To quote a fellow redditor,
"I missed out on the critical ages of 14-20 when girls were cute, innocent, cheerful, naïve, and everything was about exploring each other and having a good time instead of strategizing for the long term or using each other"
And now I'm stuck with the emotional/romantic experience of a middle schooler in a college aged body.
Its probably why I idealize romances in anime so much, b/c they all take place in H.S and its all innocent like above guy said. Both characters are attracted to each other. Its all genuine, puppy/unconditional love in there.
IRL, good god, even without experiencing it myself, I can only imagine how different it is and how it'll shatter my delusions.
Welp, back to crysturbating.
I agree with that assessment. I have the same qualms, of course it was all my fault for being self-conscious, and figuring since barely any girl ever initiated conversation or told me I was cute, that meant I was unwanted by just about everyone of the opposite sex. I wish I could transport myself to freshman year of college at least with the greater confidence to talk to women I have now a year or two out of college.
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