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Old 02-28-2014, 08:55 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Out of 3 days and 3 nights, he can't even see her for lunch or dinner once? After she drove 16 hours round trip to see him?
he's traveling to see her already, off business.. isn't that enough?
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Old 02-28-2014, 08:57 PM
 
Location: Central Florida
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I am betting he isn't single.
He is very single. Divorced 12 years ago, hasn't been in a relationship with anyone for 3 years now. I stayed at his house, and like I said, I spend most nights on the phone or online with him, and entire days during the weekend.
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Old 02-28-2014, 08:58 PM
 
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Why he can't see you and take you to see his friends?
I would not make an effort to see him at all and I certainly would not waste any more of my time on skype with someone for 7 hours.
Cripes, I can't even talk to my husband that long and he is gone for weeks or months at a time.
That is an awful long leash someone is on.
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Old 02-28-2014, 08:59 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I do agree on the "make his azz drive to you".
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Old 02-28-2014, 09:02 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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he's traveling to see her already, off business.. isn't that enough?
We don't know that for sure, do we? He said he'd be seeing her "in a few weeks". We don't know if that means that she's driving to see him, or visa versa. All that phoning and skyping, but when he's in town, he's not interested in getting a kiss and a squeeze? Really??
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Old 02-28-2014, 09:09 PM
 
Location: Central Florida
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It is me driving back up there to see him. So technically, this would be clocking 32 hours in the car to visit him. I don't mind the drive, don't mind visiting him because there is more stuff to do where he lives anyway. Just the fact that he can't take a few hours to even meet me for dinner...
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Old 02-28-2014, 09:12 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I agree, OP, he would have been better off not telling you he was coming down on business.

I think, hes going to end up seeing you when hes there, so don't sweat it.
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Old 02-28-2014, 09:19 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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It is me driving back up there to see him. So technically, this would be clocking 32 hours in the car to visit him. I don't mind the drive, don't mind visiting him because there is more stuff to do where he lives anyway. Just the fact that he can't take a few hours to even meet me for dinner...
oh that changes things.

i find it quite rude, i'd be very mad
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Old 02-28-2014, 09:19 PM
 
Location: Central Florida
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And really, my knee jerk reaction was to cancel the trip up to visit. Already got the week off from work, and he got the time off too. Was really looking forward to it. Just disappointed that he's too obtuse to see how dismissive it is to not put any effort when he is in town. It puts a taint on it I don't think I can wash off.
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Old 02-28-2014, 09:21 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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And really, my knee jerk reaction was to cancel the trip up to visit. Already got the week off from work, and he got the time off too. Was really looking forward to it. Just disappointed that he's too obtuse to see how dismissive it is to not put any effort when he is in town. It puts a taint on it I don't think I can wash off.
I'm sorry you have to go through that. Selfish people are not fun to deal with.
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