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Old 03-02-2014, 07:57 AM
 
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Knowing how to please a woman emotionally is probably the most challenging skill for a man to master. It requires you to understand the indirect nature in which women communicate. Men are more bottom-line thinkers and would rather skip over the mysterious "guess what I'm thinking/feeling games." On the other hand, women want you to be able to read between the lines, determine what their needs are and be the man to fulfill those needs.

This can be very confusing unless you understand the needs which are most important to women: certainty and significance. How do you know these are the most important? Just pay attention to the advertising which is directed towards selling women products which "fulfill" their needs for security and for significance. Companies who write this stuff spend billions of dollars a year on research to determine what needs are most important to their buyers.

So when your woman expects you to anticipate your needs, always ask yourself if she is acting out of a need for certainty or a need for significance.
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Old 03-02-2014, 09:09 AM
 
Location: northwest Illinois
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IMPOSSIBLE!! You'll drive yourself to insanity if you try!! While you might win the skirmish once in a while, you will NOT win that battle!!
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Old 03-02-2014, 09:11 AM
 
Location: northwest Illinois
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Knowing how to please a woman emotionally is probably the most challenging skill for a man to master. It requires you to understand the indirect nature in which women communicate. Men are more bottom-line thinkers and would rather skip over the mysterious "guess what I'm thinking/feeling games." On the other hand, women want you to be able to read between the lines, determine what their needs are and be the man to fulfill those needs.

This can be very confusing unless you understand the needs which are most important to women: certainty and significance. How do you know these are the most important? Just pay attention to the advertising which is directed towards selling women products which "fulfill" their needs for security and for significance. Companies who write this stuff spend billions of dollars a year on research to determine what needs are most important to their buyers.

So when your woman expects you to anticipate your needs, always ask yourself if she is acting out of a need for certainty or a need for significance.
You're EITHER trolling here, or joking or BOTH right?
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Old 03-02-2014, 09:25 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Yes. The next time your girlfriend or wife is upset, simply hand her a bottle of skin lotion and tell her that this is guaranteed to make her skin look and feel better which will solve all her problems. And do it with a smile and present it with both hands like they do on the commercials.
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Old 03-02-2014, 09:34 AM
 
Location: NYC
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Just tell her she is right all the time
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Old 03-02-2014, 09:35 AM
 
Location: Southwestern, USA
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Applying what you have learned in "Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus"., John Gray.
Just the first 4 chapters even!!!!

Then applying what you read in maybe the first few chapters only of
"Getting The Love You Want", by Harville Hendricks.

Then, having the insight gained from the "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman

That would all be less than 3 nightime readings....if you doze off...maybe 5....is it worth it?
OMG...apply 2 of the insights from these books and see the change in the responses you get!

Too many men poo-poo getting help or learning tricks to good relationship by
reading a book and have divorce after divorce...so go hide with a coffee in Barnes and Noble, shhh,
don't let anyone see you.


You WILL thank me.
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Old 03-02-2014, 09:36 AM
 
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I am a woman and I'll admit we would like for men to read our minds and "know" without us telling you. HOWEVER, I understand that that is not fair to a man. Men and women literally speak different languages. Men are direct and women are indirect. The only answer I can give is that unless you've been with your woman for many years and know how to read the signals, there is no way to really please her every emotional need WITHOUT her participating by being more direct and telling you what she needs from you emotionally and not making you play the guessing game. Good reads: "Men are from Mars; Women are from Venus" Also, "Love and Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs by Emerson Eggerichs
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Old 03-02-2014, 09:46 AM
 
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You're EITHER trolling here, or joking or BOTH right?
Did you catch the username?
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Old 03-02-2014, 10:01 AM
 
Location: northwest Illinois
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Just tell her she is right all the time
Even when she's not right!
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Old 03-02-2014, 10:04 AM
 
Location: northwest Illinois
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Did you catch the username?
Yep, I did which fit well,lol.
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