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Friends don't necessarily call each other every day. Before, he'd call once a month and that was fine with me. I've know him for years, and he has always kept in contact.
I am just wondering why the intensity of the communication now.
Friends don't necessarily call each other every day. Before, he'd call once a month and that was fine with me. I've know him for years, and he has always kept in contact.
I am just wondering why the intensity of the communication now.
The FWB was his idea.
He's into you. And you led him to believe you're into him. He said it was only FWB because he wanted to keep his options open, but he's seriously into you, and into sex. That's my take on it.
Friends don't necessarily call each other every day. Before, he'd call once a month and that was fine with me. I've know him for years, and he has always kept in contact.
I am just wondering why the intensity of the communication now.
The FWB was his idea.
If it was all his idea he probably is just doing what he wants with it. Did you guys talk about he arrangement beyond sex?!?
You just found the main reason why most FWB don't work, it entails having a mutual connection with the person you are screwing. You gave him what he wanted and now he wants it "when he wants it"
You handle it by making your intentions clear to him and not leaving it as "well it was all his idea" and cutting off the arrangement if he doesn't agree.
Last edited by rego00123; 03-03-2014 at 12:35 PM..
Friends don't necessarily call each other every day. Before, he'd call once a month and that was fine with me. I've know him for years, and he has always kept in contact.
I am just wondering why the intensity of the communication now.
The FWB was his idea.
Are you confusing FWB with FB (f&*k buddy)? I've always been in contact with my FWB. We talked almost every day, emailed, texted, all that stuff--except there was no romantic interest. It's a friendship with sex thrown in.
A FB calls you only when it's time for sex. You don't really talk much--it's just about sex. Sort of like a booty call.
If you're not interested in all the communication and the sex is just ok, at best, then tell him this arrangement isn't what you had in mind.
We were supposed to be FWB. To make a long story short, so as not to get a ticket from the Grammar Police and a citation from the paragraphs cops, I had an "encounter" with a guy who insisted that he did not wants relationship and was only interested in sex.
Well after propositioning me for quite some time , I relented. Okay. It was good not grand. Anyway, this guy has been calling me daily ever since wanting to come over. Sometimes I pick up the phone or sometimes I don't . He calls for causal conversation or to see if he can come over again.
I admit this is greeting very annoying. When I had the 'encounter, I knew it was only a FWB deal. Now, he wants to stay the night -not happening, calling to chat - not interested. I am beside myself.
What happened? How do I handle this? He said WD were going to be FWB!
Proof that to those listening, words really do mean something
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