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We were supposed to be FWB. To make a long story short, so as not to get a ticket from the Grammar Police and a citation from the paragraphs cops, I had an "encounter" with a guy who insisted that he did not wants relationship and was only interested in sex.
Well after propositioning me for quite some time , I relented. Okay. It was good not grand. Anyway, this guy has been calling me daily ever since wanting to come over. Sometimes I pick up the phone or sometimes I don't . He calls for causal conversation or to see if he can come over again.
I admit this is greeting very annoying. When I had the 'encounter, I knew it was only a FWB deal. Now, he wants to stay the night -not happening, calling to chat - not interested. I am beside myself.
What happened? How do I handle this? He said WD were going to be FWB!
I've always taken the "friends" in FWB seriously. I mean, really, I don't bang guys whose personalities I find repellant.
I'm not sure what the big deal is anyway. End the arrangement if it's not what you want.
Exactly. The OP could've just told him she only wants sex and nothing else. I don't see what the big deal is. Friends typically hang out with each other.
Your mistake was to cave to his propositioning. Now you have no choice but to tell him you're not interested, you never were interested, and to stop hassling you or you'll have to get a restraining order. Be strong about it, let him know you mean business. Dudes like this will look for any opening, any sign of weakness to get past your defenses. The only language these obsessive types understand is tough language. That is where you're at with this. Just bite the bullet and do it.
Friends don't necessarily call each other every day. Before, he'd call once a month and that was fine with me. I've know him for years, and he has always kept in contact.
I am just wondering why the intensity of the communication now.
The FWB was his idea.
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