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Old 03-05-2014, 12:51 PM
 
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Oh yeah, sign me up for a guy that intentionally tries to make me mad or jealous. What a charmer he is, I can't wait to meet him..........gak
LOOL. I wouldnt normally forgive tht kind of behaviour but I know how difficult i am to understand aswell i think he probably doesnt think I really care and so tries to play those games to see if I do.
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Old 03-05-2014, 12:53 PM
 
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It sounds like you two have some weird communication issues, or some drama going on, or something. Frankly, it sounds like you two don't click, you don't work well together. You might not be right for each other, just from what you've posted here.
We get on really really well as friends, no doubt about it. When it comes to the other side of things..as in anything more than friends..I get all shy about it which makes me seem lik i dont care..and then he tries to see if i do care by using these games and thts when it gets all complicated..
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Old 03-05-2014, 12:58 PM
 
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Lol. I have plenty of self respect dont get that twisted, otherwise I wouldnt be so cautious and judge him and complain about every little thing.

The thing is I know him quite well and i'v known him for a good few years, and when he has talked about other women he even admitted it was to get me mad or make me jealous. I assumed it was the case this time, but because he's been sincere about how he feels about me I thought i would give him the benefit of the doubt, doesn't mean im not disappointed in what he said though. But I know for a fact its all talk and he wouldnt do any of it.

Oh, come on. He's acting like a 12-year-old and being a disgusting, sexist, misogynistic slimeball in the process. That's the kind of guy you consider a friend? You have as many issues as he does.
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Old 03-05-2014, 12:58 PM
 
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We get on really really well as friends, no doubt about it. When it comes to the other side of things..as in anything more than friends..I get all shy about it which makes me seem lik i dont care..and then he tries to see if i do care by using these games and thts when it gets all complicated..
ok, this makes more sense now. But your shyness is messing you up. It's working against you. It could sink the whole ship, if it hasn't already.
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Old 03-05-2014, 03:04 PM
 
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Oh, come on. He's acting like a 12-year-old and being a disgusting, sexist, misogynistic slimeball in the process. That's the kind of guy you consider a friend? You have as many issues as he does.

I know but hes not like that lik most of the time..i dont kno what came over him.
He speaks to me for hours on end about all sorts of things..
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Old 03-05-2014, 03:06 PM
 
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ok, this makes more sense now. But your shyness is messing you up. It's working against you. It could sink the whole ship, if it hasn't already.
I kno ..i dont really know what to do now. He doesnt seem too bothered all of a sudden.
hes sort of pulling away again.

Since that the "girl is so hot and fit" comments he hasnt called or messaged or anything.
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