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Oddly, I'm pretty foul-mouthed and highly tolerant of f-bombs and such, but there IS something bizarre about his word choice. Why on earth was he talking about rubbing one out on a first date??? And taking a dump???? It's the diction and conversation topics of a high school boy.
I don't care if a woman lets a few words slip on a first date, but in the context of a conversation it can be indicative of her command of the English language. There are a lot of other ways to describe a situation or feeling, and I would prefer she give me the same courtesy I give her. After a few dates? I don't mind at all...but then I've gotten to know her a bit better and trust that she can speak intelligently if she wants.
Oddly, I'm pretty foul-mouthed and highly tolerant of f-bombs and such, but there IS something bizarre about his word choice. Why on earth was he talking about rubbing one out on a first date??? And taking a dump???? It's the diction and conversation topics of a high school boy.
Captain Underpants all grown up...
I drop the F bomb a lot too lol but that's about it.
It's just a word, wish people would get off their damned high horses instead of being stuck up.
Wow...on a first date AND during dinner no less?!? I'm with you, I'm no prude but there's a time and place. I can't even imagine how some of those things came up like that during a dinner conversation lol
When I read the title I was thinking "awww, I have a potty mouth" . At certain times I view cuss words as necessary punctuation.
I certainly stay on good behavior on a first date, or at least while into it as appropriate..... but he was just crass. I'm not sure who would think masturbation and poo-ing is appropriate conversation.
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Oddly, I'm pretty foul-mouthed and highly tolerant of f-bombs and such, but there IS something bizarre about his word choice. Why on earth was he talking about rubbing one out on a first date??? And taking a dump???? It's the diction and conversation topics of a high school boy.
Captain Underpants all grown up...
Yes! I make liberal use of colorful language, but his choice of words? Yeah, no.
I went on a date this weekend with a guy who totally turned me off with his potty mouth. He seemed otherwise to be a good catch, attractive, good job, friendly. But as the night wore on I felt like I was sitting across from someone in the sixth grade.
He used phrases like "taking a dump", "rubbing one out", "banging" and even said "spl**ge" multiple times! I don't know if he was nervous or what, but his choice of words made him so unattractive to me.
So guys, when you're out with a woman, you can be playful, but watch your mouth!!!
A well placed F bomb can and does serves a communication purpose...
That guys sounds like he's got Tourette's sydrome....
Was he drunk ? or work in Oil /Gas fields ? still shouldn't matter on a first date tho . I guess his mamma forgot to teach him some manners
I went out with a guy who works the oil fields. He had the best manners ever.
OP, maybe he was just nervous. Nervousness can be a b itch
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. At certain times I view cuss words as necessary punctuation. 
