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Old 03-07-2014, 12:57 PM
 
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Been in a relationship that i want out of but i feel god is forcing me in it...this guy came on to me strong and i clearly told him i wasnt ready for a relationship...but he somehow weasled and charmed his way...my feelings of not wanting to he with him still remained..its been 4 yrs and we have child...big mistake!! I love her but him oh gosh no!!...i tried to...tried to force my self from day one but i felt maybe this is what god wanted...cause i sure as hell did not....but i stayed put...but now i dont care anymore this is not worth it...i dont care what god plan was! if there was one....i cannot stand this man and im getting away from him one way or another....this guy has done somethings i will never forgive him for...idc how much he tries to change...i dont care how much he kisses my butt for me to stay....i want out...if god wont help me leave him then i dont want nothing to do with god either...he knows what i went through with this man...why would a loving god expect me yo stay with him....only a god from hell would do that....
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Old 03-07-2014, 07:06 PM
 
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Here's a thought: maybe God wants you to get off your ass and do something for yourself.
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Old 03-07-2014, 07:09 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Why do people always want to blame God for the bad decisions they make?

hey ontheverge, God helps those who help themselves - get busy
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Old 03-07-2014, 07:11 PM
 
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Why do you think God would want to micromanage your life. He gave you a brain and agency; use it. Might be time for you to make some decisions on your own.
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Old 03-07-2014, 07:12 PM
 
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I believe God doesn't answer our prayers by solving our problems..but giving us the strength to solve our own. Walk away, I don't care if your 20, 30, or even 40...don't waste anymore time and don't worry about hurting his feelings, you want out.

Walk away...thats it
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Old 03-07-2014, 07:14 PM
 
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I suspect that God is actually quite irritated with you at the moment. He is wondering why you failed to get an education and to make something of your life, but instead shacked up with a loser and had a baby you didn't want. I bet you don't have a job either.

Go talk to a priest or something if you want confirmation that God did not cause your problems.
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Old 03-07-2014, 07:16 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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God does not have a damn thing to do with your relationship and I'm not just say that because I dont believe in religion. You are making the choice to stay, you can leave when you want.
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Old 03-07-2014, 07:59 PM
 
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God does not have a damn thing to do with your relationship and I'm not just say that because I dont believe in religion. You are making the choice to stay, you can leave when you want.
Dissenter, your non belief in God doesn't have a damn thing to do with it either. That being said it sounds like she's not making a choice to stay but trying to find the strength to leave. Kudus OP
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Old 03-07-2014, 08:07 PM
 
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There is also a religion and spirituality forum on here -- you may get more advice re your questions over there.
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Old 03-07-2014, 09:36 PM
 
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Quit blaming God for your poor decisions. Take responsibility for yourself and your actions. Once you do we can offer you some advice.
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