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Old 03-07-2014, 11:26 PM
 
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I've been dating my gf for nearly 6 months now and have been having sex towards the beginning of December. While at it, she did told me about never seeing a man this enthusiastic about it and about how there was something different about me from her past exes.

We do say our I love you to each other and while it's great to hear she thinks I'm a great lover, I had no sexual past, nothing but kissing until the age of 27 and just turned 28 about 2 weeks ago.

How would a woman in her mid 20's (she's 25) feel if she found out that her bf was a 27 year-old virgin? I do feel like sharing this with her sometime. As a humanities and language arts professor, I just didn't have time for women before and wasn't particularly popular during my HS nor early college years.
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Old 03-07-2014, 11:28 PM
 
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Who cares? You are getting it and she thinks you are good.
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Old 03-07-2014, 11:30 PM
 
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Who cares? You are getting it and he thinks you are good.
You mean she. I have to agree that if it's great and she loves me, then I would assume my previous lack of past shouldn't be an issue if she were to know it.
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Old 03-07-2014, 11:31 PM
 
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You mean she.
Yes I did unless you are gay.
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Old 03-07-2014, 11:39 PM
 
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Yes I did unless you are gay.
Now I see you corrected it. Nope, straight here and a very late bloomer (well in comparing to my friends that's kind of late for a man).

It's just that some of my friends would keep telling me that women want a man what other women desire and who has played the fields, not one with no experience at all after a certain age so I've been a bit self-conscious about it.
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Old 03-07-2014, 11:44 PM
 
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Now I see you corrected it. Nope, straight here and a very late bloomer (well in comparing to my friends that's kind of late for a man).

It's just that some of my friends would keep telling me that women want a man what other women desire and who has played the fields, not one with no experience at all after a certain age so I've been a bit self-conscious about it.
Hahaha. ...yeah....I did.

Don't listen to your friends. She loves you and banged you.
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Old 03-07-2014, 11:54 PM
 
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Yes they are.. Why you have any problem???
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Old 03-07-2014, 11:57 PM
 
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Yes they are.. Why you have any problem???
Down girl! He's got a woman.
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Old 03-08-2014, 12:32 AM
 
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How would a woman in her mid 20's (she's 25) feel if she found out that her bf was a 27 year-old virgin?
What kind of question is this? Do you think all women are the same and think the same and so the above is an answerable question?

It is not. Women are not some fixed model that come off a production line all the same. Every woman is going to have an individual opinion on the matter. Some will be bothered by it. Some will not care in the slightest.
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Old 03-08-2014, 02:00 AM
 
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I've been dating my gf for nearly 6 months now and have been having sex towards the beginning of December. While at it, she did told me about never seeing a man this enthusiastic about it and about how there was something different about me from her past exes.
Tell her it's because she's the BEST you've ever had. It's the truth right!
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