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Its not that older women HATE younger men, but as an example of what women have been trying to say on this thread re maturity level, do you understand how ridiculously stupid many of the posts are on this board that are started by young men? Talk about a need to GROW the FLIP UP!
I think some say they are in their 30's but they are really in their 20's.
I think age is only a number, I have found that younger men, depending on how much they have experienced in life, and how open they have been to learning, and to seeing and correcting their own mistakes, can be extremely mature and quite sexy.
I can't speak for other women but I wouldn't be attracted to someone younger. It's a dominance / superiority thing. Men are supposed to be your strong protector. I think most of us like to feel that little bit dominated - that's very attractive. I don't want some young kid I feel superior to. Yeuch!
Not all women feel like that. There are plenty of women going out with men 10 years younger.
May I respectfully beg to differ on the point of dominance. I've met some men in their mid-20s who exude Alpha qualities...very sure of themselves, who they are and what they can do. And before you say any kid can be cocky and arrogant, they can back their claims up. A younger man like that could attract a very feminine older woman who appreciates the alpha traits in a male of any age. It's not "Eww" at all. Now a young man like the central character in the American Pie movie...that would an "Eww" on my part. The young man in the classic movie "Summer of 42" "Not Eww"
Well as a guy in his early to mid 30's I get a lot of interest from girls in there 20's. Thats largely bc I look younger than I am.
In my 20's I didn't get a lot of interest from women in their 30's. This is for a few reasons, a main one being many have settled down by then.
I'm 21 and I started seeing an older man (35). I honestly don't think that I could go back to dating young men again. The maturity and experience of an older man is refreshing, although I wouldn't date a man old enough to be my father, because that's just too creepy for me.
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I've dated younger men and enjoyed it though had no desire to settle down with them.
If YOU ask your dates some of the same questions you ask here, that could be your problem.
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20 to 30 is different to me then 30 to 40. When you are in your 20s you have so much to experience and even mentally one is trying to figure things out. You are really just experiencing life as an adult. A 30 year old should be more settled and have more direction.
I do think as a women ages past 50 they may date younger. They want a different type of relationship that a younger man could bring which an older one may not.
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