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Zen, "no" means no. That's all that jackass needs to know.
Mod cut: Orphaned.
I think in reality we are talking about two completely separate and unrelated issues here.
1. No definitely means no.
2. Women who don't want to have sex with their date should be considerate enough to not share a bed with him, or at least make sure all is understood and agreed way beforehand. Go home or sleep on the sofa. Don't dangle the bait. It's rude.
OhSherry, I've posted here already tonight, but in the future, please don't be so quick to have sex with a guy. Get to know him well for at least 6 mos first & if he can't wait even that long, oh well! Sure, it would be nice if men these days can wait a year, but unfortunately not many guys are willing to wait that long. Just so you know where I'm coming from, I was raised with old-fashioned values by strict parents who didn't let me date until I was 18 & graduated from high school. I was also raised to not have sex before marriage, but I know that's tough in this day & age.
OhSherry, I've posted here already tonight, but in the future, please don't be so quick to have sex with a guy. Get to know him well for at least 6 mos first & if he can't wait even that long, oh well! Sure, it would be nice if men these days can wait a year, but unfortunately not many guys are willing to wait that long. Just so you know where I'm coming from, I was raised with old-fashioned values by strict parents who didn't let me date until I was 18 & graduated from high school. I was also raised to not have sex before marriage, but I know that's tough in this day & age.
Not true, when I'm in a relationship I would ask once and if she says no I will drop it and wont ask her for three months. Then I'd ask once again and if it's no, I'd drop it and won't ask for another three months. A true man will respect a ladies wishes and respect her like a rare pearl.
Get to know him well for at least 6 mos first & if he can't wait even that long, oh well! Sure, it would be nice if men these days can wait a year, but unfortunately not many guys are willing to wait that long.
It was a long time ago, but I waited 6 months with the girl that I eventually married, so we're out there (and I am not a prude by any stretch). I wanted our first time to be special, and it was.
OhSherry, I've posted here already tonight, but in the future, please don't be so quick to have sex with a guy. Get to know him well for at least 6 mos first & if he can't wait even that long, oh well! Sure, it would be nice if men these days can wait a year, but unfortunately not many guys are willing to wait that long. Just so you know where I'm coming from, I was raised with old-fashioned values by strict parents who didn't let me date until I was 18 & graduated from high school. I was also raised to not have sex before marriage, but I know that's tough in this day & age.
I would absolutely NOT wait six months. Mod cut: inappropriate language. If there's strong, intense chemistry, there's no way I'm waiting a month, much less six months. While my father would have preferred I waited until marriage (because that was his religious belief), I was primarily raised by my mother, and she was very open about sex, and never imposed any strict rules regarding it.
The sexually reserved and prudish types do not interest me, and I find such beliefs and views about sex to be very damaging in the long run.
OhSherry, I've posted here already tonight, but in the future, please don't be so quick to have sex with a guy. Get to know him well for at least 6 mos first & if he can't wait even that long, oh well! Sure, it would be nice if men these days can wait a year, but unfortunately not many guys are willing to wait that long. Just so you know where I'm coming from, I was raised with old-fashioned values by strict parents who didn't let me date until I was 18 & graduated from high school. I was also raised to not have sex before marriage, but I know that's tough in this day & age.
We knew each other for two years before we started casually dating.
We knew each other for two years before we started casually dating.
Is "Casually dating" a code word for having sex and is he knows I'm not in a committed relationship a code word for I am having sex with multiple men? I am like in another generation here!
I think in reality we are talking about two completely separate and unrelated issues here.
1. No definitely means no.
2. Women who don't want to have sex with their date should be considerate enough to not share a bed with him, or at least make sure all is understood and agreed way beforehand. Go home or sleep on the sofa. Don't dangle the bait. It's rude.
Sex should be a mutually agreed upon activity. Anyone and everyone has the right to say no, no matter what.
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