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I don't believe that. I think what you're describing is a vocal minority, and vocal minorities abound on forums such as this; online message boards in general.
No, I believe that most men will shame a woman for having lots of sex.
I think people have screws loose in their head if they think there's much of a difference between a 1st date and a 4th date. If I get along with her, I don't give a crap what day she slept with me on. Most normal guys with a head on their shoulders would think the same way. Issues arise when guys have emotional problems, ridiculously jealous or just flat out immature.
I think people have screws loose in their head if they think there's much of a difference between a 1st date and a 4th date. If I get along with her, I don't give a crap what day she slept with me on. Most normal guys with a head on their shoulders would think the same way. Issues arise when guys have emotional problems, ridiculously jealous or just flat out immature.
No, I believe that most men will shame a woman for having lots of sex.
I wouldn't want to date a girl who is going on 3 dates a week and sleeping with every guy she goes out with. Pretty sure most women wouldn't want a guy like that either.
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No, I believe that most men will shame a woman for having lots of sex.
That statement wasn't in your original post. That is different.
I personally don't but I, unfortunately, think that is more common do to deep embedded judeo christian moralizing about sex in our society, double standards, and pervasive insecurity.
I think what you are seeing is different opinions from different men. The same men who are posting they don't like it when a woman has sex too early aren't the same ones posting that they are being friend-zoned and such. However, there are a very, very small minority of posters that post this kind of conflicting information--but I really don't think it's most men here (and sometimes I wonder if MOST of that conflicting stuff is posted by just one or two men with several user names).
It's the same as when some men say "women can't make up their minds" when one woman posts one thing and another posts the opposite. They fail to see that it's two different individuals with different ideas and that women don't think with a hive mind... men don't think that way either they are also individuals with different opinions.
I say just do what you are comfortable with sexually and find a man who is on the same page as you... and don't worry about the others.
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I distinctly remember that in one thread, you said that you would lie about YOUR high number if a woman asked you about it. Hmmm. Correct me if I'm wrong.
And I also mentioned that I realized my position is hypocritical but I frankly don't care considering society in general sides with me.
So a woman who thinks sex is special should settle for a man who is a liar and treats women like garbage.
Everyone lies, don't delude yourself in thinking otherwise. I just consider it a white lie and generally avoid it by doing the don't ask don't tell policy unless tag teamed, threesomed, gangbanged, or any other disrespectful crap.
And who says I treat women like garbage? I treat them all very well in general!
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