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Old 03-14-2014, 08:48 AM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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Thanks for all the sage advice everyone. Haha.

And I lost track, but to answer one of the questions, yes it's just the simple "starter" toys. I've always taken a liking to being dominated in the bedroom, and when this topic came up it rather excited me. I'm comfortable with them and everything, but I have never been in a full on "Dom" situation and I am clueless when it comes to the toys lol.

I did, however, read 50 Shades of Grey. I agree, a lot of the same content over and over. But that doesn't mean it can't get you fired up at times. Lol.

Toys don't necessarily mean "full on Dom"...that all depends on what you and your partner decide upon and what you're both comfortable with.

If you are leaning more towards being dominated, make sure you have a code word and establish boundaries. No "out of the blue" stuff...anything new should be discussed beforehand...and of course, have fun!
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Old 03-14-2014, 09:41 AM
 
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We have a bedroom drawer quite stocked with all kinds of toys. Alas I can not really remember how and when we really started acquiring them or using them. So cant advise the OP much on that.

Embarrasing story though is sending the mother of one of my Girlfriends up to get something from "The top drawer in the bedroom". When she came back she was quite calm about it. She just smirked and handed me the item and said "You meant the top drawer in the second bedroom then I take it" and walked away.

Took a few seconds for the inference there to sink in but almost at the same time the faces of myself and my girlfriends all just went "Ohhhhh craaaaaap".

It was never mentioned again
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Old 03-14-2014, 10:20 AM
 
Location: Sloooowcala Florida
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This made me giggle but it's also not the plunger. Think of the least likely object that can be used. All of you go to the bathroom to look lol
Trash can? Soap dispenser? Shampoo bottle?
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Old 03-14-2014, 11:12 AM
 
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Trash can? Soap dispenser? Shampoo bottle?
Wow you guys are so off so far...Those in a relationship or men might have a better chance at guessing this one.
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Old 03-14-2014, 11:15 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Back loofa?
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Old 03-14-2014, 11:20 AM
 
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Back loofa?
I am not a woman but I still cringed at the thought of that.
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Old 03-14-2014, 11:23 AM
 
Location: USA
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Magic Wand Massager. 'Nuff said.
Those have been around a long time. I wasn't sure it was even a bedroom toy when my gf at the time pulled one out considering the size and shape of the thing..Yep it was
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Old 03-14-2014, 11:23 AM
 
Location: Pa
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I am not a woman but I still cringed at the thought of that.
Why? That can be fun?
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Old 03-14-2014, 11:27 AM
 
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Why? That can be fun?
It seems like it would be a painful experience.

Unless you are into that!
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Old 03-14-2014, 11:27 AM
 
Location: Pa
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http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&sourc...sJOpVdJ1aNGXsw

I laugh so hard at this.
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