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Originally Posted by iknowftbll
 "Hi, how are you?" |
Dang it, that is where I must have been screwing up all this time!
I usually say something like "You got a purtty mouth!" or "You make me really horny!"
I guess I need to revise my pickup lines a bit?
Seriously though, most guys think there is this magic or secret that they need to find out. Secret is opening your mouth and saying a few simple, sincere words to get the ball rolling.
My routine is simple, if she gave me a look or done something and caught my attention:
- Approach and say something like "Hello, my name is xxxxx" Don't ask hers, see if she willfully and easily shares hers as well or not.
Try to read her body language, women will typically get all defensive and cautious when you cold approach them, that is natural. If she doesn't seem nervous and instead starts chatting away, then you got lucky, there is no ice to break!
Generally though, I know from past relationship, they all thought I was cute when they saw me but man, most of them were playing hard to get initially! I find girl who give me just enough attention but also play hard to get a bit, a fine line between being playfully hard-to-get and stuck up. Same goes for guys about being confident and cocky, you don't have to say a lot or be cracking jokes all the time, even an introvert can be confident and charming.
In my younger days, when I actually gave a crap and tried, I would get shot down or hit a wall most of my attempts. Some were cold chicks but sometimes I would blow it too. You have to expect 99% failure rate and learn to suck it up and keep moving forward like nothing happened. It is much easier said than done but only then you have a chance to realize your faults and start correcting them.
You don't get the showroom shine with the first application of polish!
I know it sounds like preaching but it is true. Do it while you are younger though because when you start getting older, crankier and lazier, you will start making excuses not to approach anyone!
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