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But what if he didn't mess with her and I am just crazy suspicious? It was a big part in my decision making not to tell her husband, that I didn't know for sure.
What does it matter? You don't trust him, so it's better to just move on.
If there were legitimate reasons you mistrusted him enough to move on, then remember those and do that..MOVE ON. Stop FB stalking, and don't respond to his texts.
If you broke up with him because you are insecure and only "suspected" he was not to be trusted, then grow up and move on and let this poor man live his life without your insecurity, mistrust and stalking.
But what if he didn't mess with her and I am just crazy suspicious? It was a big part in my decision making not to tell her husband, that I didn't know for sure.
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My boyfriend is starting something with a married woman. This is mutual, they're making plans, she's complaining about her husband the usual bull. I am very angry and Im not just going to leave. She knows we are together and I am sick of being disrespected. (by both of them.) I am thinking to let him (the husband) know what is going on. Any other ideas?
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He has no idea I know. I saw text messages. Thinking to tell the husband the summary of what is being planned and what she is saying about him.
Wait, so you don't know for sure if anything actually happened?
I don't know for sure. BUT I have these suspicions because I strongly believe he cheated in the past and with this married woman, she was after him a long time and they were in a lot of contact, her hinting she wasn't happy in marriage etc. and it looked really bad and I couldn't deal with it so I left. Been watching because I want to know if I was right to be suspicious. still don't know.
crazy suspcious is a good description. this is a soap opera you are ruminating about and it's just your ex sending you a text.
you don't know what he wants unless you ask. take it one step at a time. if you decide not to return it, then i guess you can go back to hovering and stalking them on their social media.
I don't know for sure. BUT I have these suspicions because I strongly believe he cheated in the past and with this married woman, she was after him a long time and they were in a lot of contact, her hinting she wasn't happy in marriage etc. and it looked really bad and I couldn't deal with it so I left. Been watching because I want to know if I was right to be suspicious. still don't know.
Trust your instincts. If you strongly believe that something happened in the past then it's very possible that something did. Even if the messages were talks about making plans and nothing came to fruition, the point is that their intent was to make plans. That's more than enough for me to walk away.
If he was only a friend to her and he was someone that she could confide in, why didn't he just say so?
There are times when suspicion and jealousy are completely unfounded, one person ends up apologizing constantly for being suspicious, insecure, whatever...as soon as suspicion and jealousy are planted in the minds and hearts of those involved, it almost doesn't matter what happens next, it grows ugly.
Agreed with reg, just let the ugly monster go, let the guy do whatever he is going to do, and don't make it your life and your focus.
If you were the ONE he wanted to be with, there would be no question of loyalty, but since its not like that, move on.
If you were him and knew everything about what you have been up to, accusations that you never confirmed, etc would you want you?
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