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I don't dislike penises, I'm just afraid of being hurt by them. I don't mind them in situations where they aren't hurting me. Vaginas I just have no interest in whatsoever.
LOL, what? I have nothing against the concept but I'm not busty enough to do it.
I think you're just scared of the unknown at this point.
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I don't dislike penises, I'm just afraid of being hurt by them. I don't mind them in situations where they aren't hurting me. Vaginas I just have no interest in whatsoever.
You could always get a ***** and/or vibrator and play around and see if it is uncomfortable. Maybe talk to your OB/GYN if it is. Fear is a horrid thing.
I think you're just scared of the unknown at this point.
You're absolutely right.
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You could always get a ***** and/or vibrator and play around and see if it is uncomfortable. Maybe talk to your OB/GYN if it is. Fear is a horrid thing.
You're right. Fear is horrible. I have medical dilators. They come in all different sizes and you're supposed to start with the smallest one. They creep me out and I've never used any of them.
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Aren't you one of the guys on here selling himself off as having tons of experience?
Not at all. I don't think I have tons of experience. I'm very average for my age.
Now, some people here (prudes) think I'm a sl*t, and other people think I have no experience at all. Whatever. I'm just an average guy.
That said, the women I'm attracted to tend to be slim/athletic, and having "mammary sex" with them never really occurred to me and I've never been asked to do it by the women that are endowed enough for it. It doesn't look that interesting. There are a lot nicer places to put it. Really, looking at it, it looks pretty silly. There is no point.
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Interesting. I think of sex as being mechanical too (in a bad way) which is why I don't really have an interest in doing it. I've never gotten to the point where I felt any kind of deep emotions for someone that would make me want to do it and I'm not interested on a superficial "I'm just horny" level either.
Sex is a necessary screening factor for any kind of relationship (or just for fun when mutually agreeable), and for me needs to occur within the first few months and preferably sooner. Marriage is not something I'd propose until after at LEAST 2 years of dating, preferably three, and preferably after living together. There's NO way anyone can make a good decision about marriage after just a few months, unless they are simply lucky.
I just like kissing people who I find attractive but it's not because I'm horny. I'm perfectly fine with doing that and not having it lead to sex.
I don't blame you for liking kissing people who you find attractive, I do too, but the kissing combined with their attractiveness makes me horny. It's hard to separate it all. What happens with you?
I don't blame you for liking kissing people who you find attractive, I do too, but the kissing combined with their attractiveness makes me horny. It's hard to separate it all.
Uh, yes. That. If the kissing is incredible, intense, passionate, and erotic (which is what I look for), then there is no stopping at kissing if we're in a place to take it further.
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