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View Poll Results: Would you be willing to date someone who insists upon waiting until marriage before having sex?
Yes 25 26.88%
Yes, but only in certain cases/circumstances 13 13.98%
No 55 59.14%
Voters: 93. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 03-13-2014, 01:34 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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Would anyone buy a car without taking it for a test drive? I need to kick the wheels and open it up before I consider buying it.
It depends on which aspects of the marriage one values the most.

 
Old 03-13-2014, 01:35 PM
 
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Would anyone buy a car without taking it for a test drive? I need to kick the wheels and open it up before I consider buying it.
Yes, the first car I purchased on my own after doing the research about what I wanted I called the local dealer to see if they had the specific car in stock and walked in and bought it. The salesman said to me, ummmm did you want to drive it first?
 
Old 03-13-2014, 01:35 PM
 
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No way. I also wouldn't marry someone if we didn't live together first.

And please, doing all the non penetration sex acts but not counting it as sex? Haha!
 
Old 03-13-2014, 01:36 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I bought my car without test driving it, so that's my answer to this thread.
There ain't no lemon laws when it comes to marriage, lol
 
Old 03-13-2014, 01:38 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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And please, doing all the non penetration sex acts but not counting it as sex? Haha!
If there is no direct contact at all, then I don't see why it should be considered to be sex.

Honestly, I myself can refrain from non-penetrative sex until marriage as well, so yeah.
 
Old 03-13-2014, 01:38 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Originally Posted by Futurist110 View Post
It depends on which aspects of the marriage one values the most.

Why would you not put importance on all aspects? You're planning (hopefully) to spend your life with them, don't present this as a one or the other type situation. It isn't. It is all of the above.
 
Old 03-13-2014, 01:41 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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No, I don't think that it is sex--after all, there is no penetration involved there at all.

I'm pretty sure it's sex ... we learned about it in middle school. lol
 
Old 03-13-2014, 01:45 PM
 
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If there is no direct contact at all, then I don't see why it should be considered to be sex.

Honestly, I myself can refrain from non-penetrative sex until marriage as well, so yeah.
I guess there is a continuum of what people mean when they refer to themselves as virgins, never having had sex, etc.
 
Old 03-13-2014, 01:45 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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If there is no direct contact at all, then I don't see why it should be considered to be sex.

Honestly, I myself can refrain from non-penetrative sex until marriage as well, so yeah.
What are we talking about here?
First you say "mutual masturbation and whatnot" and now you say "no direct contact".
What are you doing, blowing kisses? lol
 
Old 03-13-2014, 01:49 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Hell no. Not interested in anyone with that backwards an attitude on sex.
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