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Old 03-14-2014, 01:09 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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It seems pretty evident that these are people who didn't CHOOSE to spend money on you, and you're chalking it up to, "Well, he COULDN'T, because of those pesky kids and that lazy ex-wife." When the reality is that he simply wasn't interested in spending money on you. Which, frankly, if your actual persona is anything like your chosen posting persona, isn't really surprising - you come off as very entitled.

 
Old 03-14-2014, 01:10 PM
 
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Omg...he never pulled the my kids come first stuff, but his ex was a whack job...
The one guy I dated had a wack job wife. She refused to work and would constantly pester him for more money. She would call at all hours.
 
Old 03-14-2014, 01:10 PM
 
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But that's different than part of my money every month going towards a family I had no choice in starting. I am a generous person, I just don't want to be generous towards someone else's family that I shouldn't be supporting. They should have stayed together.
What are you going to do about the guy you are dating supporting his mom?
 
Old 03-14-2014, 01:11 PM
 
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It seems pretty evident that these are people who didn't CHOOSE to spend money on you, and you're chalking it up to, "Well, he COULDN'T, because of those pesky kids and that lazy ex-wife." When the reality is that he simply wasn't interested in spending money on you. Which, frankly, if your actual persona is anything like your chosen posting persona, isn't really surprising - you come off as very entitled.
He COULDN'T spend on me, and he did the same thing with his next girlfriend. Over 60% of his money was going towards child support, mortgage and alimony.
 
Old 03-14-2014, 01:12 PM
 
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What are you going to do about the guy you are dating supporting his mom?
You mean the figment of her imagination?
 
Old 03-14-2014, 01:13 PM
 
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What are you going to do about the guy you are dating supporting his mom?
A mom is different than a kid. A mom gives birth and takes care of the kid, etc. A kid was a choice. Getting divorced (or never marrying the person)was a choice that also involves morals. All different than supporting a relative like a mom.
 
Old 03-14-2014, 01:19 PM
 
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Still waiting, what do you bring to the table that would compel a man to wife you up? What do you have to offer a decent, never married 40- something man with no children?
 
Old 03-14-2014, 01:20 PM
 
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Omg we're not back to this hacked old topic are we? OP why do you even care, you're not dating a man who is divorced or has kids. Of course he's chubby, has a taco cart and lives with his Mummy at the age of 50, but hey that's better than your hated alternative, the divorced man. When's the wedding anyway?
 
Old 03-14-2014, 01:23 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Omg we're not back to this hacked old topic are we? OP why do you even care, you're not dating a man who is divorced or has kids. Of course he's chubby, has a taco cart and lives with his Mummy at the age of 50, but hey that's better than your hated alternative, the divorced man. When's the wedding anyway?
Heck, I want to know if she has managed to pry that purity ring off his finger. She is still wound so tight that my guess is "no."
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Old 03-14-2014, 01:27 PM
 
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Heck, I want to know if she has managed to pry that purity ring off his finger. She is still wound so tight that my guess is "no."
She's bound up tighter than Dick's hatband.
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