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View Poll Results: The approximate minimum you expect a potential husband to make mid career
150K yearly 33 23.91%
100K yearly 22 15.94%
75K yearly 29 21.01%
50K yearly 29 21.01%
$15/hr 6 4.35%
None 19 13.77%
Voters: 138. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 03-22-2014, 02:37 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Yeah, I'm also pretty sure a lot of the threads here are full of outliers. People do a lot more complaining than they do bragging. It's much more acceptable to people to start a thread saying "I graduated and can't find a job" than it is for people to say, "I graduated and made 60k in my first job"

Most of my friends that graduated with 4 year degrees seemed to make 40-60k their first year out.

A lot of it also depends on the person. Those that graduated college with years of working experience (even unrelated) will do far better than someone who graduated without ever holding any kind of job in their life.

If someone gets summer internships, and holds some kind of part time job throughout the school year, that will help a lot. Most expect to never work a day in their life then get some decent 50k/year job thinking someone will take a "chance" with them, even though they've hardly ever worked a day in their life.
There are a lot of people graduating collge and not being able to find jobs. It's rough out there. I'm in a tech type business and those are always pretty much in demand, same goes with a few other fields, but yeah, people should be thankful if they get 40 to 60k right out of school.

I know my company starts guys out at about 55 or so... But 55 here in So Cal isn't the same as in the midwest somewhere... LOL....

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Old 03-22-2014, 02:54 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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My dear sister has once told me, "Well, I expect my future man to make six figure income, to have washboard stomach, to look behave and act like my dead boyfriend Jason T (a Marine), and he must love me like I am some sort of princess." HAHA

There are differences between fantasy world and reality world, folks.
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Old 03-22-2014, 03:00 PM
 
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My dear sister has once told me, "Well, I expect my future man to make six figure income, to have washboard stomach, to look behave and act like my dead boyfriend Jason T (a Marine), and he must love me like I am some sort of princess." HAHA

There are differences between fantasy world and reality world, folks.
That seems like pretty reasonable expectations
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Old 03-22-2014, 03:02 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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That seems like pretty reasonable expectations
Yeah, you should see her soon to be ex-husband.
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Old 03-22-2014, 03:08 PM
 
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Yeah, you should see her soon to be ex-husband.
Lacking the washboard abs? (most important thing on list) haha
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Old 03-22-2014, 08:07 PM
 
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As long as you keep that word "ideal" in mind...

If you check out the various threads discussing unemployment, you will see that expecting 40-50k "fresh out of college" is quite unrealistic, except in certain specialized markets.
What houstan-dan said is true. People usually do not go to a discussion forum to brag about making x amount of money. I think 40-50k is realistic for a lot of majors if you work hard enough for it.
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Old 03-22-2014, 08:14 PM
 
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What houstan-dan said is true. People usually do not go to a discussion forum to brag about making x amount of money. I think 40-50k is realistic for a lot of majors if you work hard enough for it.
Well, we probably need to be talking about specific locations and taking consideration of the cost of living. There are waitstaff in NYC making 40-50K.

But the "fresh out of college" graduates making more than household median income for their areas are definitely not the peak of the bell curve.
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Old 03-22-2014, 09:12 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Enough to support himself so that he isn't drowning in debt or expects me to constantly loan him money.

I don't want to have kids and I have my own money and my own job so money is not as big of a concern for me. I care more about penis size.
Interesting response. What's your minimum / maximum for penis size?
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Old 03-22-2014, 09:46 PM
 
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I don't give a toss. I make my own money.

Dumb question.
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Old 03-22-2014, 10:00 PM
 
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Well, we probably need to be talking about specific locations and taking consideration of the cost of living. There are waitstaff in NYC making 40-50K.

But the "fresh out of college" graduates making more than household median income for their areas are definitely not the peak of the bell curve.
That is not a lot of money at all but starting out it might be OK. To live on its just not enough to even live in most places IMO.
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